So yesterday BM calls from a number we have never seen. I answered as DH was getting SS ready for Baseball practice. BM asks is dh and SS are at the ball field. I told her no that they will be leaving shortly that practice isnt till 7....it is 6 at this time. She then starts crying and going on about how she was walking from her apartment to the ball field and her "ex" bf drove by and beat the crap out of her. She said she got a RO against him the prior day and was hoping SS was at ballfield so she could get him on violating both RO's. I told her she needed to call the police immediatly if she had been assaulted again and she said she would. I then asked if this was her new number and she said no, it was what she called DH off of on Sat but she has since dropped and broke that phone.

She had told DH last week that she had her own place but we were out of town having dinner with friends and he told her he would discuss it later. We assumed that after she called last night she would be at his practice but she was a no show. So we continue to have no way of getting ahold of her and the email he sent her has remained unanswered. Out of curiosity I looked her up on casenet as she had court hearings for 5 cases yesterday and sure enough her address has changed to an apartment in the same town where she lived with her father.

In the meantime we have no idea what is going on. CPS has not contacted DH to discuss what the next steps are now that she has obtained her own residence, so its just a waiting game!

On a kinda funny/not so funny front I was having a dream last night about DH talking to CPS and telling them she cant even protect herself right now how was she expected to be able to protect SS....then in my dream BM calls again telling us how exbf chased her down in his truck.....at this point some damn big truck goes flying by our house out in the country! I swear the lights the way they bounced around our room we thought they had pulled into our front yard.....then the dogs start barking and DH jumps out of bed and grabs his gun and we hear the truck spinning off down the road.....about gave me a heart attack the way it tied in to my dream. I wasnt able to sleep the rest of the night just sure that BM's exbf had done it.....grrrrr.