i told him that WE ALL would probably be better off if we take her back to her original state-2 states away. a place where she knows people, and knows the area to get back on her feet. i told him that we are not really in the place to help her besides providing a roof and bed-she can still continue her online school if SHE wants to but that i'm just not ok with the situation at hand, it's not MY problem, i need to worry about sd13 and dd8 right now, that i can't nor will i support this baby-not as a full time supporter. he said he's not sure about that, doesn't want sd24 to think we don't want her here. I told him, that's just it, with the situation at hand I DON'T want her here. she lied, and i'm NOT ok with this big of a lie. so he told me to give him time to think about it-but that's just it TIME IS RUNNING OUT

i told him that yesterday was a PERFECT example, we go to church, the church got the beds that we had on layaway out of layaway so sd 13 would have a bed to sleep in-and get home after a series of events, get to bed, and sd gets on the computer, then stays up watching tv. so we are in a double wide trailer, as most trailers are set up, the living room is in the middle of the house-our room, is exactly next door. we had to ask her to turn down the tv so i could get some sleep. I know it was past midnight before she went to bed, cause i didn't fall asleep til 12:30, and the tv was loud enough, dh had to ask her to turn it down....but that doesn't really help because the light was on glaring through our bedroom door, so i guess i'm going to have to set a damn cerfew for a fucking 24 year old.