The More I Withdraw, The More SS13 Reaches Out
I've noticed an interesting pattern lately. The more I withdraw from SS13 and push DH towards more of the parenting, the more SS13 seems to reach out to me.
I've had a non-existent and slightly irritable attitude toward him the past month and have focused more on getting DH to step into the parent role. Now i see SS13 reaching out to me more.
Last night SS13 even through out an "I love you guys" and a "good night Step Off, Good night Dad" before bed.
Who knows if its real or just him trying to make me and his dad happy by playing along, but I prefer it to the "I hate you's" or the "your the reason my life is so horrible" that have previously been dished out.
Anyone else ever see this?
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Maybe while you were doing
Maybe while you were doing for him he felt like "Oh, she does everything for me, so I can treat her like crap and she'll just take it" and now that you stopped he's like "Shit, she stopped...maybe she doesn't like me anymore, maybe I need to be nice" No matter what, enjoy the bit of peace!