SS14 "hates" going to BM's
Well, now that BM has planted the seed that he doesn't "have" to come over, SS14 is complaining and throwing fits that he effin hated it at his mom's, it's so boring, blah, blah blah.
SS feels like he misses out on EVERYTHING.
DH said, "Sorry SS. Remember last year when you fought and fought and cried that all you wanted was to spend more time with your mom? Well now's your chance".
SS says that that was a year ago.
Thankfully DH reminded SS that it wasn't anyone's choice, that there was a court order dictating the visitation.
Can't wait to drop him off tomorrow night with his mom. My bios are going on a cruise with their dad so it will be like a peaceful haven around here - just me, DH and Baby (who turns one on Friday) and our giant chaotic remodel.
Then when my kids get back on Monday, I'm going to take a day or two off and spend some time with my kids - maybe visit the amusement park, beach, whatever. Just have some fun with my babies. Alone.
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Its important that the CO is
Its important that the CO is followed or kids start abusing time with one or the other parent. We get SS isn't coming over to you because he won't get out of bed today. No friggin way stick to the CO or the kids start to think they are in charge.
Happy birthday to your daughter for Friday!! Hope its a special day for you all.
LOL. This is extra funny
LOL. This is extra funny because BM will threaten to call the police on SS/ DH if SS calls her early for her court ordered phone call if he will be busy at 7 pm and won't be able to talk. we tell him that this is not something that he or dh is doing wrong.
so, by telling him that breaking the court ordered visitation IS something that we can get in trouble for... I think he'll understand.