Ss13 has been telling us for the last two weeks that bm was going to be takin him to the Halloween event at a local amusement park where they basically turn the amusement park into a big haunted house after dark.

I'm sure you know where this is going...

We pick him up from his visit and ask how it was and he says "oh, we didn't go. She says she'll take me next time". Next visit is after Halloween.

Dh asks ss13 if his mom took him to find anything for his costume and the answer, of course, was "no"

Poor kid really expects nothing from her those days. He sits at her house during visitation and plays Xbox games. Fun!