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When BM's sister comes to visit

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None of bm's family speaks with her. Bm's sister has been the only family member in contact with ss. He looks forward to her calls and letters and she spoils him with large ($200 in gift cards) on holidays.

She lives out if state and has requested to visit during ss's bday. She has asked about 5 days.

I'm not trying to be a bitch but I don't want my own family members staying at my home for 5 days, let alone crazy bm's only supposed "sane" relative that I've never met. She is younger. I've chatted with her on the phone and on Facebook but I don't really want her staying in my home.

I've asked dh to clarify what her expectations are? Does she think she's staying with is? Will she stay in a hotel? Will she stay with other relatives? Are we supposed to entertain her?

Again. Not trying to be a butch but I don't even put my own friends and family up in my house - that is about to go under extensive remodeling, that I live in with our Five children, where I work from home, etc etc.

Help suggestions and thoughts wanted.

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step off already's picture

This is a good suggestion. I'm just assuming she wants to stay here since dh has said he let her stay at his home last time she visited and he's stated that she doesn't make a lot of money.

step off already's picture

I llike this also. Dh has suggested I text her tonight from his phone (pretending to be him) to see what she's thinking and this may be a good approach.

yogiboo587's picture

Im new here but lmao, " new color, whore red, cheap and spreads easy. That's funny as hell lol Wink