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While we are on the topic of appropriate affection

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Submitted by Stepbell on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 6:03pm

Just wondering what opinions you all have on Facebook posts to adult kids... Is it appropriate to leave like 4 postings a week to an adult daughter ( 23 yr old) that says things about no matter how big your daughter gets she will always be your baby/ little girl? Every. Single. Week.

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Submitted by Stepbell on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 7:02pm

Oh my. At least you are blocked lol. I don't usually pay much attention to it but its kind of irritating I have kids and they know I live them but its creepy when he does this. And the daughter posts back stuff with comments about oh this is soooo me and daddy. I'm like puhleez. Grow up already. I get along with her fine but its annoying.

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Submitted by luchay on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 7:27pm

LOL - how appropriate that I come on here today and see this.

NOT that sd is an adult. She will be 13 in a few weeks.

Has just opened her first FB acct, and has added SO. AND is now stealing photo's that *I* have posted - claiming them as her own, and saying "Love you daddyyyy, you are the BEST!"

Only the ones just of him (she did comment on one of the two of us, where we have our arms around each other, saying "Get a room!"

Fuck off out of my ADULT life. I just commented on the stolen pics (someone said "nice pic Br****" as if she had taken it. I said "ummmm, my sister took that pic." And then "I am not comfortable with your privacy settings OH"

On SD's page }:)
Petty I know - but I DO NOT WANT this kid all in our adult lives. FB is where we catch up with our family and friends who aren't local, and we also much around a bit and flirt on there.

If he thinks I am going to stop that just because Princess is there he has another think coming.

RANT over. sorry Smile

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Submitted by Stepbell on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 8:46pm

I agree. I hate that part of Facebook. I just want to be able to see my family that lives in many different states. And find recipes. My ss15 ( the king of the world) makes SURE to post plenty of pics of him, his mom and my inlaws just to make sure I'm paying attention that I'm the outsider. I think she likes it too but it doesn't bother me as much as they both think. But the overplaying to a grown daughter would make me want to run if I was a guy interested in her. Who wants to compete for daddy's attention??