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Why won't the kids just talk to dad?

stepmom31's picture

I'm just in a pissy mood right now.
Here comes the weekend.

BM complained to DH that she has to take the kids (SD12 & SS10) to the mall every Friday to hang out with their friends. And then she said that the kids complained that he doesn't do those kinds of things with them.

WTH! She HAS to take the kids to mall?? Do the kids tell her when to jump and how high?
WTH! The kids never once asked DH about any such outing, never even mentioned that that's what they currently do.

Why won't the kids just talk to dad?
SIGH

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soverysad's picture

HAHA!! I would never take instructions form Wingnut on what we will do with Creature when she is with us.

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

bearcub25's picture

I agree. BM used to have the skids tell us to take them to her former place of work, a restaurant....

Finally one time I'd had enough and said 'why doesn't BM take you?'....she doesn't have any money.

That was the last time they ever said that.

stepmom2one's picture

Why doesn't he sit down with the kids and ask them why they didn't say anything. Maybe they don't want him to take them to the mall. BM maybe full of crap.

Besides like you said, kids don't get to choice EVERY WEEKEND what they get to do. They ask and you decide if it fits into the schedule or even if you want to. BM needs to get a backbone with those kids.