I had surgery a few months back and now I'm back to working. SS14 is now far away in a different town supposedly getting the mental help he needs. I remember the people from there called me and asked if me and DH were going to be there for him during court. I told the lady to call his mom and she said he would benefit from us being there then I interrupted her and explained my kids were the victims and she said Oh so you don't really care what happens to him and I flat out told her that I didn't.