HOLY CRAP....Where do I Start??!!!!!
First of all, picked SS and SD up at 6, as usual, for the weekend.
Their Step-Grandparents car was in the driveway so H told SS (the one who lives with us) that he better go in and say hello in case they aren't here on Sunday when we drop his brother and sister off. SS went to the door but it was locked so he had to wait. His SGma answered the door, but only opened it a crack instead of just inviting him in...SS finally got inside the door when his brother and sister came down to go out...SGma gave him a very reluctant hug.
H and I are sitting in the car watching all this thinking....WTF?? Of course part of it is because SS hasn't seen or spoken to BM for awhile now because he told her off about the way BM treats him....so BM has disowned him...literally!!!
Anyway, SS and SD both have their glasses on....they are not allowed to wear them to our house 'cause according to BM "something might happen to them". ODD!!!
So, other SS makes a comment wondering "why didn't they want me in the house and why were they trying to get rid of me so fast??" Dunno.....
As soon as everyone gets in the car, SD mentions SGrparents are here 'cause BM's not home...HMMMMMM...so that's why they have their glasses on for a change....but wonder where BM is? It's not like her to NOT be there...except for the one time she went to St. Louis because "she needed a break from everyone" Anywho....
Further down the road, I mention to H that I'm dying to find out where BM is so he asked!
Apparently, she's in the hospital and will be home Sunday. H asked what for and SD says "something about female problems...that's all she told me" then adds quietly "I'll tell you guys later 'cause SS doesn't know about it". I asked her if it started with an H and SD says to me, "yes, the same thing you had to have"
OMG....the thoughts that are running through my head!!!!
BM is crazy enough but now she's going to be HORMONAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND SHE WILL USE IT AS AN EXCUSE FOR EVERY LITTLE THING!!!!!!!!!!!!
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good grief
Are they afraid the BM will see them hug the kids when she's not even there? she will have to take the hormone replacements, maybe you can write it in a court order!
Also how can she send the kids out blind, with no glasses - I am sure they were PRESCRIBED for a reason? unbelievable-!
"In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer." -Albert Camus
They got glasses two years
They got glasses two years ago and SS sneaks his out of BM's house in his pocket and then puts them away when we take them home. We told him we don't like him being a "sneak" but at least this way he can see and he takes them off when he's outside playing because he likes to rough-house....which is just one more thing BM doesn't allow because "he might get hurt".
As for the hormones.....I hope they find something that works for BM right away....maybe she will then start to exhibit a little more "normal" behavior. When I had my Hysto it took two years of trial and error until we found something that worked....Gawd I hope it doesn't take that long for BM....of course we don't know if she's having a complete hysto done or not....she may not even need hormones but you're right....we should get a court order that BM is ORDERED to TAKE HER HORMONES!! LOL
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"
One good thing.....
We won't have to worry about BM harassing us for awhile...at least not until she can hobble to her computer and burn up the internet
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"