Well I have had plenty of pleasant things to say of my SS14 eventhough he has made some bad decisions lately. figure like this; he IS a kid mine or not,they do all make mistakes although he is or was a smart and mostly respectful youngman. I have had to except the fact that he is NOT perfect. I have mentioned of his "wanting" to leave home for BM cuz he had gotten himself grounded for a long while and we were not letting up,during this,he decided to become rude so I took away home cooked meals and had him eat AFTER the family,so the other kids were not around his bad attitude and he had no audience!Oh, I also had him make his own dinner-Ramen noodles w/veggies inside,bread butter,water and milk. from that bm says I am abusive and I treat he son like crap. BOOwhoo wtf ever! She does not help once again.
Yesterday SS14 BD,my fiance, was on his way to SS14's school to get a new copy of his Honor roll Certificate BEFORE he pulls into the parking lot, he recieves a call from the school,and they have his son in the office....HE was caught w/maijuanna! :jawdrop: I cried. I/WE soooo did not see that comming. He has been suspended for 3 days and we have to go to a meeting. I asked about juvy,and charges being pressed they wouldn't due to this being his 1st offense(ya, i'm sure- let him mess up better NEXT TIME right in order to get something done) mms!
Turns out his stupid selfish childish BM caught him round NOV. plz keep in mind that kids are monitored to the fullest at home,we cannot always be w/them when they r outside runnin' but before we trusted him. Finding out the FBM knew makes my blood boil!
Yep, we had it out via a few texes,she is such a waste of time! my SS14 also has a FB page- we have had his pswrd since he started and I nose through on a stalker basis,but that's what parentals need to do,i do not feel wrong for that. He will get his privacy once he gets his own place! besides its all out there for the world in the first place. I was inquiring about any1 w/info bout my SS's issue and low and behold if his BM and as I like to call them,the Village Idiots,her family and friends, get on and just attack me. I didn't mind I can take it, have for several yrs. Those peolpe cannot handle me,they don't even know how to start,just a bunch of loosers sittin around collecting disability checks starting shit-nothing more. it's sadly funny!
My skids are away now-good ole wknd visits! nice break,but not so good for them....SS14 will probably be babied who knows, we are thinking of the best punishment while he is away still unsure what to do. We get to b the bad guys and so what-it's just the same bs every wknd!
Now at 5 after p/u and swap, allbe dammed if i don't see my skids and the bm and bm babbydaddy plus 4 others packed in the car and pass our house,I am a smoker, I smoke outside and see them! Now I am worried bout my tires my house and my BD! Police say cannot do anything unless they stop. and once again,guess they gota start a tragedy before I get some resolve or comfort!
I am beyond stressed beyond pissed,almost ready to be on my way to jail, just to get MY point across! }:)