He is making the phone calls today!
Ok so pertaining to "She did What!" Her father is calling the pediatrician and gona speak to her about his daughters behavior.He mentioned that maybe we should call the school and let the social worker there know what happen and that we are alarmed with SD behavior and what she did Sat.night. He is gona call the parents this evening when he gets home from work. I guess the BM is acting like WE are over reacting and that we are making a big deal out of nothing. Do you guys think he should talk to school social worker? Is that nessassry? Any more feed back would be great.
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The school social worker
The school social worker could help assist getting to the bottom of what's going on with this child, probably a good idea to let them know. Letting them know also lets them know your SD may be a victim who is hurting and they can provide her help before she victimizes others because she was. Yes I'd call them. Hope your SD gets help
I just got off the phone with
I just got off the phone with him a bit ago. He was calling the Doc immediately. He said he would call me back as soon as he hears from her and scheduals an appt. I just thought that maybe the social worker could be of some assistance with what is going on. But if it will cause havoc then I wont.
I don't know that it will
I don't know that it will cause havoc, if your SD is having issues it may help. If he is calling the doctor now it doesn't hurt to wait until he hears from the doctor but this child needs help, I don't know that she was molested, she may have saw something inappropriate on TV or walked in on her mom or something, but this is not normal 6 year old behavior and the child does need help.
The school staff are all
The school staff are all mandated reporters. They HAVE to call children services if they SUSPECT abuse.
Maybe someone needs to call
Maybe someone needs to call child services to find out if this child was abused, I'd rather error on the side of caution and get the kid help than to not say anything when signs point to the fact this poor kid may be a victim just so I don't get embarrassed by the whole thing, Maybe the kid needs to be taken from her mother.
and one of the other kids
and one of the other kids parents may have already made this call. She needs to get this kid help and start damage control before she and/or her husband are suspected in abusing this child
The child did say somthing
The child did say somthing that alarms us. She said that her private erea is irritated alot when she is by her moms house.Burning urine etc. She also said that her mothers boyfriend has looked at her girly spot when it is irritated. I told my boyfriend that the boyfriend has no buss seeing her private spot. Why is he even looking at it. He is having a talk with the mother about it today.
Her mothers boyfriend should
Her mothers boyfriend should not be looking at her bottom for any reason, this child needs to be out of that environment, Not saying she has been molested but this could be where she's picking this up. Document, Document, Document and best of luck
Do we call the lawyer and
Do we call the lawyer and tell him what happen and what the child said?
I would, you want all this
I would, you want all this documented so the kid can be removed if need be, You also want it documented so that the kid doesn't get talked into changing the story or pointing the finger at someone else. Kids do do this you know, Part of this is about protecting the child and part of it is protecting you and your husband from being the ones accused of doing the molesting.
THe child does lie ALOT!! And
THe child does lie ALOT!! And she seems to do it for attention and thats what Im concerned with. She tryed saying that one of the little girls that was over yesterday whom she has had several playdates with. That last month she was the one that touched her first. I asked her where this happen and she said at the little girl's house. I caught her in a lie because every time they played it was at our house. So yes she does lie to cover her own ass. When my son and I first moved in she climbed up on her dad while he was on the phone with her mother and out of no where started crying. They both were like Sweetheart whats wrong. She said "dont get mad but Jack strangled me and makes me strangle myself" I went into my son's room and he was sleeping. I asked him what happen. He said "Mom she keeps on trying to kiss me, so I pushed her off me and told her to get out of my room that Im going to sleep" After her yelled at her she told the truth that she made it up. Ya see when she met my son she had a huge crush on him. She loves Justin Beiber and my boy has the Beiber hair and blue eyes going on. It urked my boyfriend that she was always hanging on my son. The poor kid could not even make it 2 feet through the house without her hanging on him. Jack thought it was kinda funny and delt with it very well and laughed often. I told my boyfriend not to worry that it was just a crush and this too would pass and that he would not be the last boy she crushes on. It did pass. But yes she does lie.
I actually agree the doctor
I actually agree the doctor should be the first step, but I don't think this should be brushed under the rug because the child has lied in the past, it doesn't mean she hasn't been abused or subjected to something, also her behavior needs to be address, there is no reason she should be bringing her curiosity out on other peoples kids. I hope this kid gets help and not revictimized because she has lied (what kid hasn't) or because her parent(s) are embarrassed to get her help.
If it was up to me I would of
If it was up to me I would of taken her to her Doctor first thing this morning. I agree there is no room for emarrassment here. The BM is acting like this is no big deal. The father is disturbed over it and realizes that the child needs alot of help. He is trying to get her on board. Which I think is good of him. Both of them should be taking this serious.
Nothappy, trust me Girl I
Nothappy, trust me Girl I thought of that last year IMEADIATELY!!! I never ever leave them alone. And my son has been spoken to about the situation too. She is not allowed in his room and he does not go in hers. Im all over that, I would not give her the chance to hurt him in any way.