This is more of a entry than a blog I suppose......

After my utter surprise regarding his thoughts on the nursery, he kinda took a back seat yesterday.....

I changed his plans and asked for SD7, it meant he had time with her whilst working, but it also meant that I could talk to her and ensure she was doing OK with things, in the correct manner rather than the poncy way OH and everyone else does.....and she is, both SD7 and my BD7 really excited at sharing a room still.....which is good good good..... SD7 still has stuff piled up, that OH hasnt bothered sorting or even speaking to BM about, although SD7 told me that BM was sorting through her toys at home anyway as she had too many......SD7 doesnt feel that BM would allow her to take any of her toys back home with her (should be fun at Christmas then!)....so Ive been drastic.....we simply dont have time to be slack with this.....so SD7 had told me certain toys she is happy to get rid of, and thats what I have done.....I have also re-sorted stuff and got rid of things nobody even remembers she has, and got rid of those aswell.....Ive asked what things she has at home (she has zero books!) so Ive said we can sort some out for her to have at home too.....She also has a box that Ive kept to one side, and Ive told her she can have small things, some books, some teddies...you get the drift that she can have around the top bunk as her "personal space/area".....and told her which toys will be staying, which in fairness is about 70% of what she has at mine anyway, Ive tried to keep as much as I can without infringing on BD7s space.....she was delighted bless her.......I told OH all of this when he got home and he was OK ish with it too....he trusts me and my instincts with his daughter to be fair....its his sons he hates my opinion on, and thats because he knows Im damn well right every time!.....

So, SD7 toys have been left for yet another week......I had also moved SD7s clothes out of her drawers and moved them to BD7s room. Told OH the drawers could be shifted now....they still in the same place too.......I flipped last night when he left to take SD7 back home (he was going to his mates straight after dropping her off).....So Im forcing the issue again....this week Im ordering the bunk beds AND the cot....and I have told OH too.....Im having them both delivered to my home and NOT my moms this time......he will be left with no choice, but to sort SD7s stuff, as she wont even be able to get into the room.......the best part? He will probably be like "oh poor SD, she cant get into her room!" siggghhhh.......SD7 and BD7 are already aware that when the bunk beds arrive, SD7 will be on the air bed in BD7s room! In fact, they made a deal that they would swap as it would be for a minimum of 2 sleepovers (beds need to be painted and prepped)....AND that both girls are excited about the sort of "camping" that will be going on.....no need for poor SD7!...I have already discussed it with the girls!