I personally have not seen him for just over 4 months, and OH as seen him twice in that timescale and spoke to him a handful of times and argued with SS19 numerous times.....now, given the t*t strop OH had with me about me wanting to take my son to footie etc................have a wild guess who turned up "un-announced" on Tuesday evening.......YUP, only SS19!!!!!!!

I say un-announced, OH apparently knew, I had no idea, I wasn't privy to information that someone was visiting my home......it was the usual sh*t, as if nothing had happened.....they had a laugh trying to think of names for the baby due, and then taking the p*ss out of the names...all very mature for a 37 yr old man and his 19 yr son........

I was then told after SS19 was taken home (god forbid he should walk!) that he had told OH that he now realised that "when I was unhappy, or in a mood he used to think it was cos he was there, he now realises that's not the case"....Oh I see OH...so NOW its my fault the liar, the backstabber and dirty mouth hasn't visited!!! :jawdrop: my reply was "oh right, it had nothing to do with coming home from work and being shattered!? He didnt consider that!?"...to which OH said "well, you can still smile and such though cant you, even though your shattered and that"....F*UCK ME!!! So I then said "so thats his excuse for not coming down then me!?"....Oh replied sheepishly "no, just one of them"....I used to come home after WORKING to find my home upside down cos he had sat on his lazy f*cking a** all day doing f*uck all!! And you want me to smile!!?? Or I used to come home and not even get my coat off before he turned up....couldnt even sit and chill for an hour after my day at work cos he was bored after doing f*ck all all day...and Im supposed to smile at that too!!?? Then SS19 said "I do love stressedstep, she has done more for me than BM" ......Oh so thats why you lied about me more than once, to get back into BM's good books, tahst why you sh*tstirred with SS17 about me...cos you thought so much of me......His "visits" used to end in him stopping a night then still being there 4 days f*cking later! Then off he would go after eating everything and being constantly told to clear up after himself for the next 3 months before the whole cycle starts again!

OH knows full well what he has done, as well as what SS19 and SS17 have done...yet its my fault...well im finally done with SS19.....totally disengaged and this time, my "moods" will be felt full f*cking force from now on.......