Showing your up for the challenge
How do you show your BF or SO that you are up to the challenge of dealing and coping with his children?
For a long time I've been angry and resentful toward his children and I haven't been shy in telling him. This has evidently caused a rift between us which is getting so bad it's making our life a misery. (I've never shown this dislike to the children though)
So for the last months I've been thinking hard about my relationship with him, and thought "should I let his children and there very innapropriate behaviour split is up? I think I would regret it if I let this happen. But, I'm stuck as how to show and start this last push, after I've been so vocal about my disgust, is too much damage already been done? I'm trying to get out of this "hole" but I'm not sure how to get on the ladder!
Thanks
Superstar
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Sit him down, and outline
Sit him down, and outline what you want to do and your motivations for doing so. Say you wish to make an effort, and you don't know if it would work, but you'd like to give it a shot. In return, however, for him to outline what he would make an effort on and close with you do want to make your relationship work, but this is the last time you will try.
I wish you the best of luck, but please realize things may not change. It may never change.
Well. Let's see - your
Well. Let's see - your question is 'how do you *show* him'.
Stop talking about the skids period
DO SOMETHING. Put yourself into action
Make results that are noticeable.
That's how I think you'll show anyone anything, unless they're blind or unwilling to notice.