Well, who saw this coming, the BM suddenly wants help....
Yep, you read that right DH has recieved an email from BM about ADULT skid 19 + , I can't remember the last time we recieved one, maybe 5 years ago or so from her, perhaps 6 years.
CS stopped last year for this adult skid, BM never wanted or needed DH's help before, he was always called when the really bad things happened, like skid stealing from the house and her, etc or was in BIG trouble at school.....
Anyway, this email is wayyyy long, BM is concerned about lazy skid, not doing anything around house, his loser friends, his hygiene, no job, etc, etc.
Suddenly, it now becomes DH's problem ?? She says she can't do anything with him, blah, blah, suddenly she pours it all out in an email, the stuff she talks about has been going on for years, BTW, but well, I guess the cash stopped a few months ago and NOW it's up to DH ??!!
I swear if we were in the same country, this skid would have been dumped on our doorstep, as soon as the last CS money dropped in HER bank account !
DH has seen the email, briefly replied and said he would talk to skid....
But, really, what can he say to an Adult ??
What do I think? Nothing, until DH says anything to me about it, what I would like to say is.... (to BM)
Karma's a bitch baby, you can only dodge it so long !! }:) }:) }:)
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"Karma's a bitch baby, you
"Karma's a bitch baby, you can only dodge it so long !! "
Boy isn't that the truth. Except our selfish BM threw SS out before he even turned 18. BM came from a well to do, prominent, "good" family - she doesn't have the excuse that she didn't know better. Her parents and siblings must be so proud to have these two worths POS things in the family.
And I don't totally give DH a free pass either. Sure his second wife didn't want the hellions around (who could blame her - we are talking criminal acts by the now deceased older one) but DH could have been a better father too.
OMG - I sure HOPE that BM
OMG - I sure HOPE that BM doesn't try to pull that stuff once the gravy train for these skids is over!!
Actually, DH is planning on changing his phone number if she contacts him EVER once CS is done. His skids will have his new number and if anything happens to one of them, the other can call him. NO NEED TO TALK TO BM EVER AGAIN!!!!!!! (WOOHOO!!)
Yep, let this be a warning if
Yep, let this be a warning if you think it stops when the CS stops, people ! Our BM thinks it's funny to diss DH on her Fakebook, moan about him being useless, blah, blah, but the Karma Shit hits the fan, and suddenly it's somebody else's fault ??? Hmmm, ok......
She had the audacity to moan that now CS has stopped, skid is claiming unemployment benefit ( this is WAY lower than what CS was, plus SHE was pocketing all that, while conning MORE money from the system!) , she is unemployed too, and her loser sap bf's work is struggling too she cannot afford to keep doing this !!
Well, duh, YEARS ago it was all smiles and fun, what no rules for skid ??, fine, let skid, get away with petty stuff ( compared to now, but still serious for a 14 yr old at the time ) no worries, it's all fun, fun, fun !!!
As, I said, before, NOW it's her money, with an entitled skid just bumming around the house, acting like he has for years ( Sorry BM, it's your house, your rules, you teach respect within it AND police it ) NOW it's NO FUN !! }:)