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I can't stand my step child!!

Texmomto4's picture

:O I'm new here, but as I have read, my situation is not that uncommon. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, together for 4. We have known each other for 15. I have 3 children from a previous marriage, he has the one. This little girl is the worst I've ever seen. She is totally manipulative, she lies, she steals, curses like a sailor and dresses like a tramp. Just today I found out she scratched the eyes out of my daughters photo, destroyed my daughters personal property and stole some electronics. ON EASTER! When I first noticed the eyes in the picture, her immediate responce was "It wasn't me"...always her responce.

I have never had a single discipline problem with my kids. They all get A/B honoroll at school, this girl is failing. I know she gets all of this behavior from her mother who has never worked a day in her life...her parents are still footing the bills. And of course the child support we send pays for her coffee and cigarettes.

I buy this childs school clothes, school supplies, shoes, toys, you name it....never a thank you. When she leaves my house to go home, she takes every bit of it with her, so the next time she comes over we have to go get more.

I really feel that this little girl will be the end of me and my husband.

Her voice is like nails on a chalk board. The way she says "Daddy" in baby talk just makes my blood boil.

I have to say that for a few months, she was acting better. Not sure why, maybe she was in trouble at home. She was telling her dad that she wanted to live with us. That she loved being at our house. To the point she told her mom. So we went and dropped $$$$ on a lawyer to get the process going. Now I am thinking what the hell did I get myself into?

I can't let my kids get short changed because of this girl. It is not fair. I have really tried with this girl. I mean REALLY TRIED.

When I caught her lying to my face, I was shaking I was so mad. I am going to loose it!

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Texmomto4's picture

My husband has talked of wanting another child, sad as it is to say...I would be afraid to leave the baby with this girl.

I don't know how to tell my husband that I don't want his daughter living with us.

instantfamily's picture

What does Husband do for her or how does he discipline her? She sounds like a night mare and I agree that you don't allow her near your potential child and certaninly work on her behavior now. Do stop enabling her- if you give into her you are toast. She sounds a bit twisted. Protect your family and straighten her out before she ruins yours.

mama 11's picture

I'm so glad to Have a place to vent too. My step son Is a cute but annoying child that I can't stand. My husband knows this and doesn't hate me for it. Bio mom is a drug and alcoholic and has been in 6 jail cells and 5 Rehab houses in the last 16 months. Child lives with us as courts did right thing. He has adhd and I would guess aspbergers as well. He's 9 and is 5 socially and skill wise. I feel bad but glad to know I'm not the only 1.