Last night I had a pretty intense dream. So much so that I have been in a foul mood all day.
I dreamed I had a baby with DH and it didn't matter if it was a boy or a girl - can you really tell with little babies? This is by no means a bad dream but in my dream, all the things I have read on ST happened with BM - as if having my own child caused BM to lash out. The nutcase BM who starts trying to get your DH's attention, turning your skids against you, etc.

I have to wonder if the "peace" I have had at home is attributed to the "power" BM has over DH - they have the boys together and no matter what will always be biologically tied. DH hates when I say this but it is true isn't it?