well Chef just found out that one of his nephews that has been married for about a year to this very high maintenance appearing twenty something and who has been busy breeding two children is getting divorced.  Bear in mind this is BM-centric NYS

Chef's bro broke this news and Chef said that's 21 years of payments.  To which Chef's bro replied "he's going for custody!"

I almost fell off my chair trying not to laugh! Chef's family, especially the men look like biker gang types and the nephew is NO exception.  The BM appears to be very well put together, however her bosom shots and duck faces tell a different story.

She's going to file an RO and claim abuse of the children (3yr old girl and 1 yr old boy) then take him to the cleaners.  The house is in his name but she'll probably take that too.