My W and I have been married for 3 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 7, I have a son 11 that lives with his BM and comes to our house 2 weekends a month and we have a son together who is 3. My wife is not a communicator when it comes to matters that involve issues with the kids or things of that nature. She has never been able to help me understand the personalities of my step kids or how I should deal with them on certain things. I have ask her for her help on these matters and it has just led to argument. She feels like I should be able to figure it out on my own (you’re a big boy attitude). This is her style in other areas of our relationship as well. I’m very stressed in my life right now and feel very alone when it comes to her. I’ve talked to her several times about it and now it has caused animosity between us. We have tried counseling and have not had a lot of results. I’m struggling with should I stay or go??? It does not seem like she works hard at our relationship nor the relationship with my 11 year old son. HELP??