My husband just asked me to think about his daughter and ex wife keeping out child...how in the hell should I respond to that on

So tomorrow I am helping a friend move and my husband plans on helping when he gets off work. Well, I have asked a freind to baby sit but they had plans. I was talking to my husband about it and he said he had thought about letting his daughter baby sit our 15 month old. I asked how this was going to help becasue she would have to be with us and whats the point I would end up watching 2 kids istead of one and it would be more on me.

He actually came out and said, No I mean let her watch him at her mother (aka the ex). What the hell? How can he ask me that. I said well um that is like asking the ex to baby-sit our child, right? I mean becasue the 15 year old can barely do anyting for her self. I am sure she would ask her mom to change the diaper and feed the baby. So in all reality the ex and the daughter would be watching the child.

Personally, I am not that in need of a sitter, but the fact that he even would suggest it really pisses me off.

Maybe, i am over reacting, but I dont want the ex doing anything for my child.

What's ya'lls comments on this one?

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ummm your not over reacting

ummm your not over reacting actually I think your under reacting...i woulda flipped

Definitely not over reacting!

Definitely not over reacting! HELL to the NO!!

^^ This. I can just hear bm

This.

I can just hear bm cooing to your infant now "Ohh you poor little thing... yous mommy is a bitchie whorie, yes she is, isn't she"

Please, kick your DH in the nuts for me for even DARING think this idea up let alone proposing it to you.

hahahaha!!! Yes! A good

hahahaha!!! Yes! A good kick in the nuts is in order!

Oh yes... kick in the nuts!

oh wow . I would have

oh wow :? . I would have flipped out! My SD has watched our DD and I have made it clear, I do not want my DD at her mother's (the ex's) house...I would have just said, no thats ok, DD can come with us to help move.

I'd be taking the baby with,

I'd be taking the baby with, taking time out for baby, and baby can be well fed and take a nice long nap while you do what you need to do. It doesn't have to be such a chore to help your friend move and baby will provide some nice respite for both of you when it's time to take a break. Think of it as a fun process and 'subliminal learning' for baby...hey...this is what a move looks like kiddo!

Its really what I have

Its really what I have planned to do. And especially now since the ex had proved to me yet again he doesnt think before he opens his mouth.

i wouldn't have known whether

i wouldn't have known whether to laugh first or slap him first.

Ugh! When BD was a baby DH

Ugh! When BD was a baby DH was not on good terms with his parents. But we were very friendly with BM's mother. She was always asking if she could babysit and we let her a few times and it worked out great. The last time she babysat I pulled up to pick up the baby and BM had her in her arms down the street at a neighbors house. I almost died!! That was the last time!

BM was all like I love babies blah blah blah but she somehow hates her own kids!!