:jawdrop: Married a man 13 years older w/ 4 kids. Three kids are from the same mother and now live with us. Two of them are adults (23 & 20) & the youngest is 16. They 20 year old is a daughter who has hit me in the back of the head with her fist, threatened to kill me, loosened the lug nuts on my car (more than once)... This time she came home from college & things have been great for a month...until last Friday when she reverted back to her old hateful, smart-mouth ways. She acts like the world owes her everything & has to work for nothing but still wants the car I bought given to her for free. She thinks she can treat me like crap and still get things she wants that are my decision to give her. I wish her father would make her realize she is 20 not 12 year old. She uses her birth mother just like she uses everyone else. All but the youngest child have this mentality and it's very sad. It makes me sorry we fought for custody at all.