I texted her earlier today and told her that I would be handling the estate. That there was nothing left for her. That because she chose to consider herself a nonfamily member for the better part of 25 years, that we would follow her lead.

I'm sure this will piss her off, but I do not care.

What she demanded was a collection of dolls that my grandmother hand-painted, sewed clothes for, and assembled. Loony says she has it on tape that my grandmother requested her entire collection go to Loony's daughter. A child who is only five years old, and who has seen my grandmother maybe three times and her whole life.

Nosy neighbor Jerry, who says he was in the room when this conversation took place, says that my grandmother only requested one particular doll.

No matter-that bitch will get nothing and like it.

I did mean to invoke the wise Forrest Gump - glad you caught that!!

Loony remained in my Grandmother's life, though she lives in Alaska and came to visit her once or twice a year. I had no problem with that, as I realize that people can have relationships with whomever they want. What I don't understand, have never understood and will never understand, is why Loony cut my mom (and consequently EVERYONE in our family save my Grandmother and my father) out simply because my mom asked Loony how she was doing after a miscarriage.

What I really have a problem with is how Loony waltzed in to the rehab facility last month demanding to be made POA. I also have a problem with the way Loony texted demands to my mother and me (without ever saying hello or asking how we were doing) about what she wanted from my Grandmother's house. I feel that if she wanted something, she could have at least called or been nice. Waaay too much for Loony. Moving on, bitch!!

It's funny you mention "ignore the whore" - when the first text from Loony to my mom came in, my mom handed me the phone. I read it outloud, laughed and said, "ignore the whore, mom, just ignore the whore." My mom chuckled a bit and then scolded me for my language

My grandmother doesn't have much - her condo, her belongings and a small amount of cash. For reasons I will never know, she had a $100,000 mortgage on a condo she lived in since 1978! There will be some money from the proceeds of the house, and the will states that everything goes to my mom.

Loony texted me that her daughter has two or three of the dolls my grandmother made - apparently she gave them to Loony's daughter the last time they visited (August of this year). As far as I am concerned, that is what she gets

There are some things we thought we would find, but we didn't. A particular piece of jewelry. My grandmother's mink. A few other things. It's possible that she gave them away. It's equally possible that Loony took them the last time she was in town back in November.

She gave me her wedding set (she still wore it long after she became a widow) and another ring when she went into the hospital.

She texted "I have it on tape if you need to see it."

I am still ignoring the whore. Nosy neighbor Jerry told me that he was in the room when the "tape" was made and that my grandmother pointed out one doll and one doll accessory that should go to Loony's daughter. Loony said the entire collection.

Like I said, I will smash them to pieces and set them on fire in my firepit before I let that ungrateful bitch have them. She has an uncle who is an attorney, whom I know very well. I won't be surprised if he sends a letter to my mom.

I shall tell him to fuck off

I had my husband change the locks on the house at 3 in the morning after she died.

Every nosy neighbor on her court had a key, including the nosy neighbor Jerry, who texted Loony about my grandmother's decline last month. Told her she was "dying and she had to get here NOW!" My grandmother was not dying....

I will post a whole separate blog about Jerry. That guy is a dick!!!