You are here

boyfriends lady friend

welmade's picture

Submitted by welmade on Sat, 05/05/2012 - 8:13pm

My boyfriend An I just moved in together things are getting serious we have been talking there is a girl he used to date he apparently didn't see it going anywhere they had sexual relationship and broke up he wasgood friends with her until we started dating I informed him I was not comfortable with that texting talking on Facebook etc she e mailed him the other day asking why they cannot be friends he makes me feel as though I'm keeping him from friends and controlling. What should I do am I overacting or is it a valid concern?

Comments

dodgegal05's picture

Submitted by dodgegal05 on Sat, 05/05/2012 - 10:04pm

Ask him how he would feel if the roles were reversed? As a woman I would not be comfortable with it, but I have friends that I have a sexual past with that I would not necessarily stop talking to right away. This is a hard one. I'd say it could go either way (valid or overreacting) depending on how long they have been broke up, how they act around eachother, if he'd be okay with you joining him to hang out with them, if they do dinners together (that is a no go for me as I would not see one of my past partner friends in that way while I was dating someone).