this is my first blog.
not sure where to start.
life is pretty awesome. not ganna lie.
it's an honor to step parent two beautiful children.
they are 6 and 7.
they are my world.
we share 50/50 custody Fri-Fri.
of course there is the invisible woman in our life that keeps things exciting.
we call her 'she who shall not be named.'
she who shall not be named wants to be my BFF.
so strange.
she gave my husband and i am engagement gift and wedding card.
i was not impressed.
she is super creepy, controlling, and manipulative.
we've been trying to set very clear and strong boundaries with her.
she doesn't seem to get that we are not a three some.
they kids are pretty well adjusted to our situation.
we never speak bad of their retard - cheep ass mother to them.
it makes me sad that she doesn't seem to take very good care of them.
they smell like urine when we get them back each week.
clothes are too small and are dirty.
where the hell is all this child support going?!?
she is so white trash she lost her trailer and had to move into her parents basement.
it makes me sad that they kids have to live like that every other week.
well, i guess this is a start to my ever growing random rants.
i do think that my husband and i are doing the best we can with what the situation has brought us.
i pride myself in making sure that the kids are VERY well taken care of when they are with us.
i absolutely love spending time with them and getting to live out all my soccer mom dreams.
i want to go above and beyond the status quo.
i have no apologies for my role or how i got here.
i am an undercover superhero.