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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 4:42pm

I just thought I'd post how much more relaxed I am now that I dont talk to BM. Who wouldve guessed something so simple is so stress relieving.

I get a little worked up when H and her talk because every time my husband sends her a text about SS, she calls him back. But instead of getting super hyper about everything, I say 'aww that sucks for you babe'

So much easier now that I've stepped back and let him deal with her!

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Oi Vey's picture

Submitted by Oi Vey on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 4:47pm

Yay!!! I remember "letting go" was soooo hard (because I needed to know everything!) and when I finally decided it wasn't something I needed to do, I was like, "what took me so long?"
Gosh, it was sooo nice to not have to deal with that crao. Blum 3

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 5:05pm

Yes, I know what you mean. Not my problem became my mantra. She is not my Ex nor anything to MY child so why would I put up with her crap. SO I blocked her #.

My SO doesn't speak to her at all she sends a text or she get no response.
Sucks being you BM. When and if you can grow up and put your children before your own selfishness we can talk. Until then you are on your own.

Letting go is good.

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Submitted by ThatGirl on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 6:02pm

I always wonder why so many SMs seem to be so involved in BM crap. I could care less what BM does. She's absolutely no relation to me. It's bad enough that I have to deal with the drama of her children, no way in hell would I want to get wrapped up in hers as well. Congratulations to you for disengaging! Smile