I'm not very good at starting my blogs off but ill just jump right into it as best as possible...

So my boyfriends mom and I had a great relationship initially until last year, occasionally we would text each other and we were similar on a lot of levels which was great being that I always wanted to be close to my bfs parents. When my bf and I would have arguments or disagreements my bf would talk to his mom about it and I would notice the cold shoulder she would give me. But initially I looked past it as the disagreements would lessen over time. I should also mention my bf is the biggest mamas boy EVER! Which actually doesn't bother me but I just don't like that he tells her everything we are going through.

My bf was raised by his mom only, so I understand their bond. Things got really out of control last year my bf and I were living in another state away from family/friends. We knew nobody, he/bf had gotten a job in a different state which was the reason for the move. Anyways, during this time we as a family were going through a lot and it was taking a huge toll on me personally. In a nutshell it became physical and I decided it was better to leave the state rather than live in that environment.

Now, to clarify the situation a little bit my bf and I were both dead wrong in the conflict and we both talked about it after and apologized for our parts. The problem now is that bf told his mom about it all and on top of that, bf kids lied and told his mom things about me that were never true. Of course she believed them even after the kids admitted they lied. So from what I gathered from my bf is that shes mad at me because of our fights and shes mad because of what his kids told her.

So a few months after all this drama, my bf also told me she was mad because of one post on facebook! The post she was referring to was so old and she said she felt like it was referring to the stepkids. Which it wasn't at all but whatever. Anyways, after all this has happened she has told my bf she wants nothing to do with me. I have already reached out to her and apologized for my bad behavior in the past and ive tried calling her texting her with no response. So my bf told me to give it time and I have done that for almost 8 months.

I'm all for letting people have their space but damn I didn't murder anybody! I feel like after awhile of her being upset with me I'm just not going to care and eventually I might give up on the relationship with her. What do yall think? Do yall think I'm being insensitive?