Just some updates on DH's kids...

OSD posted something about pregnancy (old wives tale on how to tell if you are having a boy or girl) on FB and tagged a couple of her friends and MSD in it. So pretty sure that MSD is pregnant. She said something along the line "For my friends that are pregnant. I'm done having kids but every baby is a miracle and blessing."

I caught a tail end of a conversation that DH was having with YSD on the phone a couple of weeks back and he was "at least she is still in school so that is good." I could tell there was more to the conversation. So I'm pretty sure YSD was telling DH that MSD was pregnant and he was saying well at least she is still in school.

DH would never tell me that MSD is pregnant. I'm sure he is embarrassed himself. I don't think they have talked since the day she tried to fight me in my own home.

So this is MSD's second kid. Kid #1 will turn 3 in May. Different dads. I wonder if she will stay in school considering she couldn't even finish 2 classes of H.S when she had kid #1.

Her last BF that she had that I knew about was a drug user and abusive and already has another kid. Not sure if that is the dad or not.

She got lucky with baby #1 dad because his parents provide A LOT for the kid and do A LOT for him.

OSD somehow managed to get herself an actual management job at a UPS store. I guess they never checked the records that she was prosecuted (in another state)from stealing from her last job.

All she got from that is probation and had to pay a fine.

Today is YSD birthday. So only 15 more months of CS. (18 and graduated) and YES I have a countdown.

YSD asked DH to buy her a phone because she was on MSD's phone plan but she cut her off because she wasn't paying and BM won't get YSD a phone plan. Not sure what BM does with the $600 a month CS she gets for YSD... but not my business.

And I have never known people to have so many phone numbers and phone plans and whose in charge of the phone plan and what not.

Usually every year on YSD's birthday BM sends some crappy text yelling at DH about how he didn't properly wish YSD a Happy Birthday or how he didn't do it timely enough or the right way. She's crazy. Doesn't do it for any of the other kids but YSD.

But at least when the text/call comes in we will know her new number and know what new number to block.

SS is still in court for his DUI. He hired a lawyer and I think he just keeps getting the court date pushed back. The actual DUI happened in November and I think sometime this month is the actual court date.

He moved out of our house end of Jan. and I haven't seen him since except one time and haven't heard DH speak a peep about him too much.

OSD was posting on her FB about her DH's baby mama (mother of his 2 oldest kids) how she won't let them see the kids that often and how it's not all about the money and the material things and they are doing what they (OSD and her DH) can for the kids. And I'm thinking... Ummmm so your complaining about a BM who sounds very similar to your money hungry BM.... Hmmmmmm... .okay....

Disengagement has worked wonders for me except when my curiosity gets the best of me from time to time and there is always some drama or some good story.