CS/BM
Okay one more insanity thing....
How is it that some BM's (mine inparticular) can sit around and tell anyone that'll listen that FH spends no money on the skids. I thought that $904/month + 50% medical expense + all the food and fun while they are with us is money...Oh yea thats right FH money growns on trees and she has never had a job, oh 1 job, spitting out kids and collecting. I am a BM too, and although my EH pays about as often as a solar eclipse, I never expect more than the courts stated. I have never asked for money for sports, or camp or anything else. Maybe that is why EH has such high arrears..I'm too nice. Now before anyone gets crazy on me, I think she deserves the CS, raising children is expensive, but dont then accuse FH of never paying for anything for them. (BM is mad cause we chose not to put them in Summer Camp so they are home with me all day going to the pool!)
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bm is always broke and according to snowshyte
"daddy" doesn't help her mommy at all....Alimony and CS totals approx 10K A MONTH. But snowshyte is always in rags...i constantly have to buy her panties bc she'll come to our house without any on and she takes them all back to her mothers...her pants are always too tight/too short...etc...
And BM is ALWAYS telling my DH how "strapped" she is. WTF do they do with this money?????
"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”
10K? A MONTH?
O.M.G.!!! I hate her for you!!!!!!!! Wow! Maybe you'll get a lucky break and she'll just fall off the face of the earth!
i keep hoping for that
it just never seems to happen. My husband thinks it's his punishment for not listening to his gut when it told him not to marry her. EVERYONE was pressuring him to settle down and get married. He proposed while drunk out of his mind...says a lot about his level of stupidity at that time.
"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”
OOOHHH Don't get me started...
... on the clothes, CS, and never having money! BM aka CUNextTuesday actually had the nerve to tell SD(7) that it wasn't fair that daddy has Marie and she has no one to help her with the bills... BooFrickenHoo... They LIVE with us! Why does she get ANYTHING??
they spend it on
themselves!!! What a joke! I would love for just ONE state to make it compulsory to show where the CS goes. It's a joke!
If they are going to spend
If they are going to spend it on themselves the least she could do is get some plastic surgery so when I have to look at her snaggletoothed cyclops face I dont hurl! Thank god the skids look like FH!
that's what I'M saying!
I was like ok honey, you have ALL kinds of money at your disposal...why not do something about that nose? or that hair??? something!!
"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”
Maybe we could start a
Maybe we could start a collection fund or something. As much as I hate ever giving her any more money, if I am forced to have her in my life the least she could do is shower more than once a month so I could get the smell off my porch! I ask FH what the hell he was thinking and all I can think is damn she let herself go....that is the problem with getting married young...thinking with the wrong head.
I dont know but the skids
I dont know but the skids said she just bought a car and she is out of town EOWE when skids are with us.... She claims her BF has a doctorate but he looks like a serial killer...and he left Mommy's house to move in with her (4th guy in the 4 years since the divorce) so I think it's FH money that pays for her lifestyle. Sorry I am pissed today....
My EH actually had the nerve
My EH actually had the nerve to tell me I don't spend any money on our son. I do make nearly 2x as much as him and he does pay CS ($354 per mo.). He was also supposed to pay for 50% of out of pocket medical expenses and others which he conveniently has forgotten. I pay for all insurance. I pay for my son to go to a private school (almost $5k per year!). I pay for all day care. He is with me 60-70% of the time. I pay for all extra curriclular activities. I pay for all school lunches and fields trips. I buy school pictures and all back to school supplies. I take him on at least a week vacation every year (he never has). I pay for all medical expenses. The only thing he pays for is clothes and food at his house and of course the pile of toys he claims he needs. My son has learned to ride a bike, snow ski, swim and skateboard all within my care. All of those things take money (especially sno skiing since I live in Arizona!) My 8 y/o son is now a better skiier than me! My son has everything he needs and too much of what he wants in my opinion.
My DH and I have SS10 and SS17 the majority of the time and he doesn't get a dime for those kids. That was his choice - his ex doesn't have any money to give him anyways. She can't afford the new child and husband she's supporting now.
My DH had suggested that we stop accepting the CS when we got married. I don't quite understand his reasoning. I didn't agree. I think it was a pride thing. I don't think BF should be relieved of his responsibility regardless of whether I need it or not.
Guess my BM fits right in.....
BM receives child support ($800) a month and then tells DH that is what the court says he has to pay her. AND that he still owes her for half of everything else.
AND by everything else she means..... clothing, shoes, toys, books, dinners, everything.
DH used to pay it too. I literally saw an email from her asking him to split $7.50. I could not believe it.
He did pay it though and i had no problem with it - cause we believed she was stuggling - she told the court she was a teacher's assistant and only made $1030 a month.
Come to find out - she is a teacher, with a special certification making about $3900 a month or more.
So now we just pay half the meds, doctor appointments and the child support.
DH was pissed when she let the real truth slip out.