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Submitted by mumzy79 on Tue, 09/01/2009 - 4:04pm

OMG the insanity never ends. I opened my mailbox today with an oh so lovely letter from DSS adressed to FH & Mumzy - no last name for me - oh wait that's because she doesn't know it. The charge? Physical neglect/Lack of supervision? Seriously? When they are here FH and I + my Bio's are together 24/7. Whatever. Guess we'll have in interview this week where FH can lose a day of pay to deal with this. BTW I am a SAHM - lack of supervision is kinda hard aint it? I know this is just retalitory to the 2 pending Contempt charges for visitation denial, but I am seriously not willing to keep dealing with this psychosis - sucks too because I am madly in love with FH and SK's, but I wont subject my bios and myself do the DAILY insanity. Anymore suggestions than to take the court charges, hateful email from BM and report cards for all 3 of my bio's who btw ALL got straight A's and one got perfect attendance to DSS?

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Submitted by Stick on Tue, 09/01/2009 - 4:29pm

Do you have disposable income? Can you file harassment charges against her?

*** A rainbow just threw up on me... and now I'm sh*tting glitter! ***

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Submitted by frustrated454 on Tue, 09/01/2009 - 4:39pm

can't you be charged with something when you keep filing wrongful charges against people? My neighbor had to go through this with her ex. Said she was feeding only microwave food and some other crap. She like you said brought her sons straight A report card.
I am sorry you are going through this it makes me sick when people do this out of revenge or whatever.

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Submitted by mumzy79 on Tue, 09/01/2009 - 4:45pm

Not since I was laid off in January. We are just keeping all of this information so hopefully we can one day gain custody, but like I said this BS isnt good for me or my family and it is days like this that as much as I love him I want to walk away. It is my BD's 6th birthday tomorrow. How do you think it feels to be making her cake through tears?

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Submitted by mcneita on Tue, 09/01/2009 - 11:17pm

I have been there and done it. It hell and it will make you look at your husband different because your kids coukd be taken too. Its not funny and its so bullshit and I hate been a step parent. I wish my husband did not have outside kids.. Woman or X's can be so stupid sometimes. I went throught hell for a whole year with DSS.. Bullshit.

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Wed, 09/02/2009 - 6:57am

the better person. My BM has called DSS on us 3 times over past 10 years. We just went through questioning, told truth, and everything was found okay with no concerns. That seems to bug BM more, as she "knows" we must be abusive/neglectful as the PC's. Unfortunately, anyway can call DSS, and they can do so anonymously, fortunately, DSS does get smart and realize that a lot of times it is a bogus BM who does these things, but they have to do their job. What a waste of tax payer money

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Submitted by mumzy79 on Wed, 09/02/2009 - 9:32pm

It was all about me not FH. I was accused of treating SS's different than bios by letting them play with steak knives and locking them in their rooms all day. If she had any idea how great I treat skids and how much I love them she would thank her lucky stars instead jealousy's green monster prevails. Mcneita - it does make me look at FH differently because my kids are my world and I have never worked so hard to make sure not even a hair was hurt on their heads. If she keeps this up I m not sure FH and I will make it.