dh went to mediation today with bm
and it was awesome!!!!
i prepared all of dh's documents, pictures, court papers, etc. he looked so professional!!!
the mediator slammed bm! told her she needs counseling to get over her issues with dh moving on. told her she was wasting every ones time. laughed at her attempts to keep ss out of my care. told her to leave her bf if she is so upset that he refuses to marry her. bm says she cant cope with the fact that dh and i will give ss a sibling......
i had a bunch of pictures prepared and as soon as dh handed over the photos of bm drinking while ss was with her, bm immediately agreed to stay at 50/50, and all of our stipulations! no showing up or calling dh's work. only one half hour window in the morning and evening to talk to ss, other than that no other calls unless emergency.
also, mediator informed her that she is in BIG trouble for fraud for pocketing dh's child care money and lying to the govt to get them to pay the full tab. also, she is in BIG trouble for breaking the court order and removing ss from daycare against the court order which says that dh has 50/50 say and must consent!
bm is being court ordered to attend counseling, and going to be in big trouble on the 26th for court!!! lol, and the mediator asked bm why she likes drama so much, and does she like being a drama queen?
thank you all for support, advice and caring words through this uphill battle we all go through!!
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YAY!!! That was a great
YAY!!! That was a great post to read!!! I wish DH could be so lucky!!
Good for you and DH! Glad
Good for you and DH! Glad someone could help you guys out
I love it when things work
I love it when things work out exactly the way they should! Gives me hope for our situation.
Good for you guys!!!! That's phenomenal!
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." ~Robert Frost
Nikki...I am so happy for
Nikki...I am so happy for you guys!!! What happened with the child abuse thing? Was that addressed?
not really there was no
not really
there was no report yet on what happened on their visit. dh and i were never contacted regarding the claim so we had no info on it. bm showed up to mediation with absolutely nothing! all she had was her purse! she looked so pathetic. when dh brought it up, the mediator asked her for the name of the investigator, claim number, etc. She said she didnt know any of it, then she blurted out the last name, the mediator said, "oh, i know who that is, ill email her and get the report so the judge will have it for court." then she asked bm what happened and what was the result. bm said that they questioned her, bf, and ss, and everything was fine. but the way she said it and the fact that she brought nothing to support anything she claimed against dh, the mediator looked at her and gave her a look that pretty much said, "i already know your a liar" dh had all his stuff with him and repeatedly pulled out things to prove that bm was lying. bm even admitted that she lied about how much rent was on her court documents, and she lied about her expenses...
on her myspace it says she "just doesnt know what to think" she already called yesterday at 430 to be drama and say that she wants to switch weekends (because this is what mil wants, she thinks we are too stupid to see through it) and that she better have him for Halloween....im sure NOTHING stuck in this dumb bitches head. shes already just thinking of a new way to try and take ss away, screw over dh and i, and get more free money from the govt. And most of all, cause drama! i hope she legally gets in trouble by the judge for fraud and lying, and is forced to go to counseling so she gets help! SHE NEEDS IT!!
Geez! I hope it helps
Geez! I hope it helps her!!!! Thereby helping the whole situation in the process!
thats what we are hoping,
thats what we are hoping, but she seriously is a brick wall. she cried and said she was afraid dh would use it against her if she went that she was emotionally unstable....he said that he never would, unless she doesnt go, because that shows she doesnt want to make the situation better. she has until nov 1st to enroll