i have to say kids say the darnest thing!! my ss is 3yr. we were in the store shopping and the bm called to talk to him like she usally does when we have him. anyways i guess she ask him what he is doing and if he ate..... and he said yes asia cook..i'm with asia walking we going shopping... then he said i dont want to talk to you i'm going shopping with asia... so i know the bm felt some type of way... then she call my husband thinking accusing someone telling him to say that to her... but noone did// he was on the phone with her himself... then she having a conversation with my husband that my ss should not call me mom.... but he never calls me mom... he always call me by my name.... the bm has her own relationship. and everytime i see her she always says hi to me... we have a good relationship i would say.. like a hi and bye thing.so i'm just writing whats on my mind.... how she could act so inmature.....