And it begins....
I decided to play Mrs. GoodWife and picked up SD like I was asked. Although now I wish I didn't. The kid does not shut up. Constantly talking about "my mommy this" and "my mommy that". Ugh...Anywho, I get her back to the new house and she immediately begins doing laps through the house, I told her to not run in the house and she continued to do it, so she got sent to her room and had to sit on her bed. No tv, no toys. Then after supper she started in with the "I only like my mommy and daddy together". DH explained to her that sometimes mommies and daddies decide that they are better off friends than being a husband and wife. Well that didn't satisfy her because every chance she got she would tell ME that Mommy and Daddy are supposed to be married NOT me and daddy. This went on for about 4 hours even after we explained it to her and asked her to stop talking about it, finally DH sent her to her room and we took away her toys and TV again. So the next morning, the little bugger would NOT listen to me AT ALL. I was unpacking some boxes and flattening them out to go in the dumpster. Well some of the boxes had the industrial staples left on them and were poking out, SD decided to play on them even after she was told not to. I told her to go play elsewhere, she stood there, I asked her AGAIN to go play elsewhere, she stood there, so after about 6 minutes of trying to get her to listen, I picked her up and moved her myself, then she screamed and bawled "YOU PUSHED ME!" I told her she wasn't listening and that she was being naughty. Well she yelled at me "YOU'RE NOT MY MOM! I HATE YOU!" and I yelled back at her "NO I AM NOT YOU'RE MOM BUT YOU WILL LISTEN TO ME." Then I sent her to her room AGAIN. She screamed and yelled, threw stuff, tried slamming her door a few times (we made sure her door could never slam). She was in there for an hour before she stopped her hissy fit. When she came out boy did she have an attitude. I told her she had better check her attitude and if she continues this that she will lose everything for a long, long time. Her attitude did not improve so she ended up losing her TV for the next week. Ugh kids...Why do we, as stepparents, always get the shit end of the stick?
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WOW FADING....you poor
WOW FADING....you poor thing...GOD bless you for having to put up with that all day. What did your DH have to say about all of this? What was he doing while she had her hissy fit?
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
Because we are gluttons for
Because we are gluttons for punishment!!! My DH caught my SS11 texting F*** YOU to some kid and got on him. Asked him where he learned that kind of language....ummm BM that's who! And the kid threw on the pout attitude. As soon as we got home, he ran to his room and STAYED there for the entire weekend. He came down once to eat breakfast I think. It was a good weekend for me because I didn't have to look at his face or put up with his shitty attitude but I think taking his phone and busting his ass would have been a better approach but what do I know? I finally convinced DH that he needed to call BM and discuss this language!!! She wouldn't talk to him about it....she made her DH talk to mine! She has the maturity level of a 5 year old....MAYBE! And then of course it's "SS has had a huge chip on his shoulder lately and he must have learned that kind of language from his little GF" Sure...blame it on another 11 year old kid...don't own up to it or do a thing about it. UGH......
****I can do bad all by myself****
Mine is 5 going on 21!
Mine is 5 going on 21!
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Me too! I keep wondering if
Me too! I keep wondering if this is the calm before the storm. And if this is what 'calm' is, I don't really want to see the storm...
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SD9 keeps dropping freaking
SD9 keeps dropping freaking this or freaking every other word. I told BF on Sunday that soon it was just gonna be fu king this and that. SS16 was cussing the little kids out at 14. I would tell him to stop but apparently BM and BF don't mind that language out of young kids.
Those poor skids don't stand a chance in this life. They will be nothing but white trash as adults. I tried everything I know to make a small difference. Oh well, least my kids are OK.
My SS11 BM is such a piece
My SS11 BM is such a piece of trash...that poor child does not have a chance in hell!!! I feel for him...but I don't want to have to deal with him 24/7 either! If he were to move in with us I would be G-O-N-E in a flash!
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