Okay, so I have one last thing to say about all of this.
Don't do it to someone else.
I can handle it. My BM can handle it. My DH can handle it. My Skids can handle it.
Others may not be able to. You can wreck families with this. Destroy their whole lives...........is that what you really want to do here? all because you were booted off a website? Really?
I thought I knew you better than this. I didn't know you had this in you. Maybe you chose me because you know I can handle it and were just trying to scare everyone else? That's what I hope.
But really, just don't do anything else.
I have to get back to my life now. Now this internet crazyness. And so does everyone else.
A really GREAT friend helped me to get to this point. Let's keep it going like this, please.
If you want to talk...........let's talk. If you want to cuss me, cuss me. If you want to come after me, do it. I'm all about it. I've told you I am sorry. I've tried to talk to you. I've tried to make you understand why things happened the way they did.
JUST STOP.
We were friends for two years. You were there for me when no one else was. I get that, I see your hurt. I've talked about it so much tonight I can't even express to you how much I understand why you are hurt. I get it, you're hurt. But did it really warrant this? No, honey the answer is no.
I would never do this to you. NEVER. No matter what I say or threaten, you know me better.
Please girl, stop it. Enough is enough.
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I'm glad you happened to be
I'm glad you happened to be friends with your BM. In my case, I don't have that type of relationship with my BM but my DH kinda knows what goes on here. I can't believe how someone would dare to do something that would definitely affect someone's marriage and life. I have no idea who this is, but I am glad nobody here has my facebook...
Gia, you're exactaly the kind
Gia, you're exactaly the kind of person I hope that "this person" doesn't mess with. The results could be unfixable.
And that's me with a DH that
And that's me with a DH that knows what steptalk is and has read many of my posts, not to mention that most of the things I talk about here, I talk about with him in real life. Think about some women whose husbands have NO idea they "vent". OMG, so many lifes could be shattered. I honestly would not have the guts to do such evil thing. This is some high school crap and this woman (cuz, lets face it, only women like that kind of drama) should learn a lesson. :O
Exactaly. Some of these
Exactaly. Some of these DH's don't know you are on here, not to mention the BM's. This could destroy lives. Families.
My SO has no idea I post
My SO has no idea I post because I know he would flip out on me.
I would be one of those
I would be one of those people who if this happened to me, my life, as I know it, would never be the same...just because Jen has a good relationship with her BM has NO bearing on the punishment for such an offense...and Jen...thank u from the bottom of my heart for bringing this out...I don't agree with the people who have posted that this should have been handled differently....I think she did exactly what I would do....warn everyone so that we can protect ourselves.....ty for that Jen...and again, I am sorry for what u have had to go thru because of one person's evil deed.....please show us he proof when u are able to....
Because I'm blocked every
Because I'm blocked every which way but loose!
AND because you've tried to
AND because you've tried to deal with this in a grown up way but have not gotten anywhere. Some people are more interested in making themselves the victim than putting on their big girl panties and dealing with people personally instead of passive aggressively.
We all deserve to know that
We all deserve to know that this type of behavior is going on. :O
If there were members here
If there were members here giving out personal information, wouldn't you want to be made aware of so you could take precaution?
I agree...this isn't some
I agree...this isn't some difference of opinion here or bitching at each other....this is something that if it was done to any one of us could have had serious life changing, implications...why shouldn't we all know if we truly do all care about each other?...I would have done the exact same thing....