Beaccountable, this is NOT made up.. Oh how I wish it was!!! Granted when BM has the kids, she should have a car, cause I know BF doesn't want them on a bus or something.. But WTF?! I don't think he realized the amount of stress here!! AND BF works! NOT BM! So the bitch doesn't even need a car to go to work everyday, me and BF do!! This is nuts! I was so mad, yes like" are you serious? Your gonna walk to work?" I said, what if its pouring down rain? He said he could get a ride from a friend... WTF?! Where is BMs family and friends? Or are they all dumb whores like her with NO JOB?! I cannot believe this! There is NO WAY we are sharing a car.. As I sad for example if we had to go drop the kids to her, BF would have to drive out, and I would have to follow him in my car, in order to leave the one car with the money hungry whorebag!!! Are you kidding?! And I would so have him tell this bitch where to go, but BF (much like the other dads) isn't gonna leave his kids with BM and no car! If something were to come up, yada yada yada... SO????

Crayon, that's exactly how I feel!! And I just said last night when we were talking (before he said this) that I can't wait to watch her fall on her ass! I said she won't have any extra money.. The CP and A will just barely pay all her bills! And we both agreed and were laughing.. Even this; his mom when she called n was talking shit about BM, BF was all agravated about BM being "so friggin lazy n not getting a job" and going on and on about stuff that BM has been doing to piss him off.. How I do more then BM does!! Hello! But your thinking about sharing a car with the lazy bitch for a month till you can afford to get one?! This bitch needs to fend for herself! I'm younger then her and have my own house, my own car and work full time to pay MY OWN shit!! Why can't she??? This is what urks me?! He says he is sooo tired oif giving her money and once the CS and A kick in he isn't giving her a dime.. So...wtf! Why again are we gonns struggle to benefit her nasty ass??

Well BM has shit for credit, so everything was in BFs name.. BM had a car, and during the marriage BF asked BM to at least get a part time job if she wanted her brand new car, which she said she would..ooohh big suprise she never did! Well last year BF turned it in on her! Haha.. And then moved out.. Well he told BM she could drive his lease.. And he got his bros car to borrow.. Soo.. Now that lease is up, BF was gonna buy it, but can't get financed.. So instead of BM actually getting off her fuckin ass and doing one damn thing for herself, WE have to figure it out?!?! UGh the more I read all ur responses the more pissed I am!! But I know BF isn't gonna leave the kids with her if she doesn't have a car, then if I say that he is gonna look at me like I'm a bitch who doesn't care about his kids well being... Right?? So help me, how do I address this??!!

I know!!! Its bullshit!! But as I said, what do I say to him?? I made it clear I did not agree.. But I know the only reason he is thinking of doing it, is for the kids.. He doesn't want them stranded ya know.. Ok, I get that... But why the flip does my BF have to walk to work or get a ride so the dumb bitch can have the car??!! What does BM do? Um.. Tan..and be a whore?? Does she need transportation to do those things?!

Gia your not saying I'm the dumb one right? I hope not, cause I'm just trying to get some advice on this.. I'm not accusing, its just hard to know who ur speaking of via internet

Storiesbysteve, jojo68 and LMR120... THANK YOU! Steve, I understand, and as I said my BF is a good man, and he wouldn't be able to tell BM to F off and find a car, I would him too, but I don't see him doing that.. I see him and I arguing and getting nowhere..ugh.. Jojo68, I have given up trying to understand as well.. Idk why he cares so much and has to be the nice guy when she fucked hm over and continues too, I point out the fact that she uses him over and over...time and time again, and it doesn't sink in! I want to pound it into his head sometimes!!! He would die if I said we were gonna share my car with my ex husband (I don't have one but still lol) and LMR120, that sounds like a good idea, but he knows I'm crazy, I would be the first accused lol...

Steve, believe me you, its NOTHING sexual (barf) he in no way, shapr or form wants BM back!! I am not at all worried about that! And yes, I do understand he is a good man.. But I want him to understand that this "car problem" is no longer his concern.. He and BM are not in a relationship anymore, kids or no kids.. BM has a "boyfriend" shouldn't he be helping her? So Steve, as a man, how can come about expressing this to my BF without him taking it the wrong way?

UPDATE ON CAR SHARING ISSUE!!
I got home last night from work, walk in..skids are all excited to show me how they "cleaned up the house for me" lol.. BF says, when you have a min I gotta talk to you (he didn't look too happy, funny cause 1st thing that came to mind was "oh shit BM saw ST site LOL") Anyways (may be long) I sit down and BF says "someone isn't happy today" and shows me his phone as he begins to read me texts btwn him and crazy BM.. So their argument started cause BM asked if BF paid anything on her cable bill! So Bf says" yes I paid 100 towards it, I'm trying here, I have other bills" BM says "Oh, so ur helping GF with her bills?!" BF says, "we live together, its none of ur business where our money goes" So BM is gettin pissed.. BF then asks BM if she has found a friggin job yet since its been a year! BM says" No" ... BF made a comment that the economy must be REAL BAD then (LOL) this pissed BM off, so then BM starts talking shit about ME (what's new) and says my job is one any woman in their twenties can get! (I'm a manager n work 40 plus hrs a wk) hahah, ok bitch! So she then goes on to say, "fuck the judgement for the divorce! (Mind u we are waiting for the finalization till her fuckin bankruptcy is final) She says she wants to go to mediation to split shit and get what money he owes her! And she says "and you can pay for that too!!!!" OMG at this point my blood is boiling!! And I say " Bf I'm gonna tell you right now if you let that bitch use our car I'm gonna be pissed!! After all the shit she pulls and demands more money from you and tells you what your gonna pay, no fuckin way!" I was so livid, as was BF, he said we are NOT sharing the car with her.. SO THEN the bitch is sayin that she is sure BF won't let her use the car cause I keep him on a tight leash! Hahahahah!! And BM then says (cause BF isn't replying) "oh, ur GF must be home, tell the SLUT I said hi" AHHHH!! My blood pressure flew thru the roof!!! So point being, I made it VERY clear we are NOT sharing a car with that bitch! BF is sooo pissed at BM, he is still fuming today (which doesn't happen) He went off on her last night, standing up for ME!! Thank god, its about time! So.. My friend works at a car dealership and she is gettin us a car for cheap, and we are giving BM the car SHE wants, which is a 400 dollar a month car payment!! HAHA, the bitch can have it! Maybe she can get a job for once and pay for it!!!!!

Losthope, no, it wasn't like that.. He was suggesting what we may have to do.. Which I didn't go for.. BF sometimes isn't one for thinking things thru before the ideas fall from his mouth
And Metalmom, BM does have a BF!! With a vehicle!! It doesn't matter, she will always try to get btwn me and BF cause WE are happy and she can't stand it!! She is miserable! I just can't wait till her kids see her for who and what she really is!!!!

Oh if it were up to me, there would be NO communication whatsoever... I'm shocked that he is till pissed at her today, but happy.. When she kept sending texts last night, I told him to NOT reply. And he did not.. BM acts like a girl in HS with her drama.. Its funny cause she always has her smart ass comments about me cause I'm younger.. Like calling me "a little girl" haha, right.. This little girl works a full time job, has her own home and her own car, and pays for all my own things!! And BM is a friggin loser that can't pay for shit.. I would never be the ex wife that has to ask my ex hubby for money! I would feel like a friggin loser, pathetic!