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We live with an 8 year old terrorist

Charliew86's picture

My names Charlie and I'm 23 and I my fiance and I just had a beautiful baby girl back in April so part of my life is filled with the undying love that I never new existed, the love for my baby girl. The other part of our daily life is "Jordan" he's 8 and my fiance had him in a previouse relationship. I love him he is a sweet boy for about an hour out of every month. The rest of the time I can't stand him he yells, screams, talks back, he has said that i ve hurt him and tried to call the cops, he once tried to jam a stick in my throat, he is a terrorist, he has the mentality of a betrayed 17 year old girl out for revenge and when he's like this I wish he was gone. I have 100's of seriouse talks they feel pointless becasouse he doesn't give a fuck he promises the world and comes back 10 times worse. His mother is also at her wits end with his behavior. And Woo his father is a god damn stoner who refues to take him and the kid says were mean because were not like his dad his dad has him 4 day out of every month and doesn't do shit. He's not a parent he's a buddy.I'm so sick of him and his dad I just want them to go away together well this is really turning in to a rant so if anyone has any advice on how to teach this little shit some real respect email me. Thanks for reading
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kphotog's picture

Sounds like a horrible version of my SS9 when he was 6. I recommend time out for 8 minutes every time he pulls that crap. Time out doesn't start until he's sitting in the designated place quietly. It's amazing how well this has worked out in our family, 8 minutes is like a lifetime. I rarely have to put my skids in time out anymore because they know better now. Good luck.

coltsmom5's picture

sound like my 6 year old step daughter, i know what you going though and im sooo sorry, i wouldn't wish that on anyone. i eally dont know what to tell you but do what you feel is right.... if you wanna talk im here.