....and so it starts. We picked her up on Sat. and we were told how she was caught stealing and lieing at BMs. and after the year we had with her before she went to BMs for the summer, my BF had a talk with her about how he would not put up with that behavior do you understand? She very sweetly replies Yes daddy. Well my daughter the very next morning not even 24 hrs later descovered she stole from her. My daughter knocked on her door and asked she ofcourse lied. We then told my BF what was up and asked him to go talk to her and search her room. His reply- she couldn't have not the first day. I said could you just go search please? He did and yes found it, and guess what did nothing but tell her if she wanted something like what my D has come to him and he might buy it for her, and thats it. Then she comes out and asks can I go out and play? He said yes and off she skips happily. I say "what no concequence" His reply was I did not want to punish her on her first day back.UHG Now every time I say anything to her he loudly asks,"What did you say to her?" Just venting.