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Do I have the worst BM problem ever???

leogirl819's picture

:jawdrop: Besides many many other things that BM makes me SICK over...she really made my blood boil last night! My husband and I were working when she dropped SS11 off at our house (where he lives) with my mother who babysits for us. My daughter 10, was in the front yard when she pulled up and SS gets out of the car, his NASTY DISRESPECTFUL mother rolls her window down and THROWS her disgusting napkins in our front lawn! WHAT A PIG!!! I wish I could put on some boxing gloves and get in the ring with that SLOB!!!

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WHERESMYWART's picture

Uggg..... Sounds like she needed a good boxing. Have you thought about calling the local police and ask them what you can do for her throwing her trash on your lawn? Sounds petty but a lot better than putting up with it or cleaning up after her stupidity.

StepMadre's picture

Yes! Littering is illegal, especially when it's on someone else's property. I might tell her that if she throws her trash into your yard again, you will report her to the police. She might just be trying to manipulate you into a conflict, so it also might be a good idea to ignore it and not give her the satisfaction of seeing that she upset you? It's incredibly tacky and immature to throw trash on an ex's lawn and she sounds like a pathetic, trashy bitch!

It might instigate more trouble, but you might also collect the trash/napkins and leave them on her stoop with a note saying, "I believe these belong to you. Please do not throw your trash or belongings on our lawn." It really depends on the dynamic you have with her and you will have to use your best judgement to figure out the right course of action. Good luck!

Madima2006's picture

She is a worthless bimbo and don't let her win by getting mad. Just smile and be nicer. They hate that the most. They also hate it when your happy, so be as happy as you can.

leogirl819's picture

Yeah I know as much as I feel like picking up her trash and throwing in her face, I will not. She probrably did that in FRONT of my daughter knowing it would get back to me...she is like that. Thanks for the comments!

Synaesthete's picture

How charming. :sick:

Like others have said, I wouldn't let her be worth your anger. That's a pretty childish move and if that's the best impression she would like to make on people, I find that laughable.

PS - Your avatar makes me giggle.

just-say-no's picture

I know how you feel...I was laughed at and ridiculed by BM and her new fiance last night when I was told that I had no place in a conversation regarding future SS10. I asked her "well what about your boyfriend?" only to be corrected with"Excuse me...my fiance", I reminded her that I was future DH's fiance too.. Crazy BM then laughed and said "Yeah right" and her DAFH states "Really...and when did that happen?" I stated..."UUHHHH last October, and I have the ring to prove it" (Crazy BM has no ring LOL). They had to end the call...it wasn't going anywhere....imagine that! The funny thing is, Crazy sent an email to my future DH in May wishing me a "Happy Mothers Day"....WTF!

just-say-no's picture

Sorry...that made absolutely no sense....she wanted him to wish his Fiance a "Happy Mothers Day"...to much wine and frustration LOL

Just-say-No....to BM Drama

tugofwar's picture

I say collect it all up and add some extras in a big trash bag then go dump in BM's yard, I would include some of my dogs shit in there too }:)

leogirl819's picture

HAHA...I would be on here forever if I could tell you all the sickening things she has done. One more thing I have trouble swallowing...My DH and I have one son,4 together, I have a daughter from a previous and he has 2 kids from SKANK...lol...anyway, when my EX comes to pick up my daughter, occasionally she is there at the same time picking up my SS. So she has CONSTANTLY been trying to GET with him!!! In front of ALL the kids! She even went to the extent of giving her son her phone# on paper to give to MY EX!!! Now he totally thinks she is disgusting!! My daughter 10, tells me she feels uncomfortable in this situation. Now my ex isnt the type to be rude, so I tell my DH about this. He confronts BM and she says.."OH u 2 r just JEALOUS"!!! WTF???? She is A SICKKKOOOOO!!!! BTW thanks for all the advice! I think I will IGNORE her disgusting pig-like problem!

leogirl819's picture

LMAO Tugofwar....I am cracking up.That would be nice if she actually HAD her own place. In the past 6 months she has been leaching off of one person after another. I wouldnt want to throw garbage in someone elses's yard...lol...

Rags's picture

Sounds like it is time for a midnight trash deposit on her front lawn. I recommend masses of maggot infested rotten meat, dirty diapers, etc.....

I had neighbors several years ago who hated each other. They would take turns doing things to each others lawns, landscaping, etc.... They would both get very creative in their devious vandalism.

Have fun and get creative.

Best regards,

mammabird's picture

video taped incidents and voice recordings have saved my dh's butt twice now.... it's legal in ohio! Smile

Rags's picture

In TX it used to be legal to record your own conversations without informing other participants of the recording. I do not know about video. I just moved back to TX after a long absence and the laws may have changed.

I can't see how a recording of activity on your own property would be illegal anywhere. I would set up a web cam that covers the area and capture everything the moron BM does when she drops the Skid off at your home. Put the footage of any crap in front of a judge and let the judge decide.

IMHO of course.

Best regards,