OMG- how does that not bug you?!
Last night, Loghead and I were standing in the kitchen, talking about our school days. I was fixing myself a glass of juice, and had just loaded the cup with ice. Lazy Boye walks through the kitchen at that moment, just having come inside from playing basketball. He REACHES in my cup and TAKES out some of the ice. :sick: I just look at him in disbelief, and then look at Loghead. Loghead just shrugs his shoulders and keeps talking.
I stop and yell, "Get your hands outta my cup!"
Loghead tells me to relax, "He's your son, it's not like he's full of germs or something."
Uh, actually, he is. He's a teenage boy. he's been out with the dogs and playing basketball all afternoon, and god knows what else, and who knows when he last washed his hands. And if you wanna get really technical- he's YOUR son- my skid.
I move to the sink and throw out the ice, wash out the cup and refill it. Loghead storms out of the room, telling me I over reacted and made Lazy Boye feel bad. he was mad at me the rest of the night.
Seriously?! It's called personal space and hygiene. Ever hear of it?!
Ugh, can we please set some boundaries? Ok, and I get to guy it may not have been an issue, but it bugged me, so why couldn't Loghead just support that, and bust his kid's ass for being a complete MORON.
Thank goodness I have the house to myself tonight.
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Hello - do you know if he
Hello - do you know if he washes his hand every time he pees and holds his penis in his hand - I would not have even yelled at him I would have slapped his hand. My SS knows never to touch my food or drink. Your SS needs to learn some boundaries and respect. If you want ice get your own. I don't even let DD4 touch my ice because I don't know where her hands have been either.
Loghead needs a smack as well - every one has germs - he needs to teach your SS to learn some manners.
Ewww!!! I wouldn't have liked
Ewww!!! I wouldn't have liked that either. You did the right thing. Glad you have the night to your self.
I'm like that even with my
I'm like that even with my OWN kids. I can't stand for someone to drink out of my cup or touch ANYTHING that is going in my mouth, no matter who they are. I don't even drink after my husband. It really has nothing to do with whether the boy is a skid or not. Personal space is personal space. Your husband needs to respect youts.
He went too far and Dh should
He went too far and Dh should have backed you up, it's like eating off someone's plate you just don't do that!!! Now if he had asked for a piece of Ice and you had offered it to him .. fine, but otherwise the kid was just being inconsiderate.
I was just thinking about
I was just thinking about this issue the other day. For me it is sorta a skid issue. I dont want ss in the kitchen at all. He doesnt shower at our house unless forced to despite wetting the bed each night-never washes his hands-so obviously he has penis and urine germs on his hands as well as the normal dirt, sweat, etc SS has also had worms in the past-everyone in my family had to be treated as a precaution because he had them. Earlier this year, he mentioned in passing that his younger bro at bm's had worms recently. I asked him if he had to take medicine too and he said no. So I am ever wondering if he has worms to boot. Now my other kiddos I dont mind so much. My girls have fairly good hygiene so I am ok with them-bs could certainly use some improvement and I dont encourage him to go in the kitchen but nor do I ban him from it. SS is always digging around in the fridge and I am forever asking what he is doing. He likes to eat and forage all the time. Never in a million years would I drink from a cup that he put his nasty hand in-although my kids could probably get away with that. Not that ss would ever do this as he acts as if I am leper. I guess I dont have too much hope after hearing how your loghead reacted that dh will think it is ok if I tell his son to stay out of my kitchen.
"They feel comfortable with
"They feel comfortable with you." That's what my DH says when my skids do something stupid to me or around me. I love that man to death but he can be such a fu@&ing idiot sometimes.
Yesterday, I'm laying in my room (of course I share it with DH) and my SD16 walks in and starts going through my closet! I'm like "WTF?!!" I asked her what she needed and she told me. Got it for her (her "DADDY'S jersey) and she left.
PERSONAL SPACE!!! STAY THE FU@& OUT OF MY ROOM!
just gross & nasty! how can
just gross & nasty! how can you be over reacting... loghead needs a reality check and a foot up the ass for not correcting skid.
i just can't believe these skids have the nerve??
My own DH won't eat out of
My own DH won't eat out of anything his OWN kids have dug their hands into!