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Unhappy's picture

Submitted by Unhappy on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 6:53pm

Okay, so I know this is a dumb thing to be happy about. But I just can't help myself.

So New Years weekend BF's BD(6) asked us if we were going to get married. BF asked her why she wanted to know and she says that her mom aka Double E
wanted her to ask. So my BF just looks at me wanting to know what he should tell her. I know it's none of Double E's business but I just couldn't help myself. So I told BF that if she wants to know then tell BD yes we are getting married.

So BF comes home from work about 2 days ago and and tells me the he received a text from Double E stating congradulations. He replied back with a thank you.

For some reason this makes me happy. She now knows that I am just not another girl in my BF's life. You know, the one that's just taking up space until they get back together. I AM THE GIRL.

I hope that supid B cried herself to sleep after all the crap she has pulled.

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aug2010's picture

Submitted by aug2010 on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 7:18pm

Prior to my wedding BM made my life hell. She didn't want me to come to my SS's soccer games. She confronted me at one of them to tell me that my now DH cheated on me with her. When I told her that me and my DH had talked about the accusation and everythings okay She got upset. She kept my SS out of our wedding. We got him 2 hours this christmas and she convienently forgot fathers day last year. Sometimes we love those hopefull BM crying moments.

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Submitted by LizzieA on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 7:29pm

Our BM actually did cry! After we eloped, DH called her to let her know we were married so she wouldn't hear it on the street. She cried and said, "congratulations." So fake, poor her. She destroyed her marriage and almost destroyed DH.

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Submitted by ddakan on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 8:16pm

Yea, after me and DH got together, she wanted DH to come back and try again because of the wonderful changes he had made in himself and since he had changed and was now so loving and thoughtful that they could make it work now. He was all.....WHOA, UM NO.

She had no clue that her whiney, self loathing, lying, nasty self was the reason why they were so unhappy. My DH told me this and I wanted to hurl.

Then she started refusing to pick up the skids because it "hurt" too much to see us happy. It's been 10 years and she's more bitter today than she was then and she's STILL alone. She hasn't been able to trap a man again because her uterus isn't working anymore. Damn, the luck!

Why don't ya cry baby, cry baby...cry baby cry!!!!!!!!!!!! LMAO

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Submitted by aug2010 on Mon, 01/10/2011 - 11:11am

ha ha love it it has been about 7 or 8 years since DH was with the BM. And she still tries to test him and tries to split us up...can't wait to see what she does when i'm preggers....my hormones vs. her stupidity...she may have some issues!

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Submitted by ohiknow on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 8:52pm

I bet you she did. And I bet you this won't be your first blog about her reacting to it.

I sincerely hope BM cries when we tell her. I tell BF all the time that I want him to tell her to her face to get the full reaction. I'm so evil.

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Submitted by Whateva on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 9:33pm

Wow good for you and DH. I also love the sarcastic "Congratulation" We got one of those when BF announced to exwife that he and I were moving in together. She texted him a "Congratulations" My BF saw it as sincere, however as a woman I could feel the sarcasm.

Whateva

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Submitted by skylarksms on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 8:38am

BM found out we got married when I sent the new medical insurance cards.

I asked SD if BM got the cards. She said yes. I asked what she said. SD let me know exactly what BM said with a little smirk and gleam in her eye.

Yeah, she wasn't too impressed. H had told BM about me when we first started dating and the last time she had him over to "see" his kids (aka free babysitting), when he left he told her that he was going to my place and that I didn't want him coming to BM's to see the skids anymore.

BM's response as he was leaving was, "You'll be back. You always are." and then let out a nasty laugh. I wonder if she's realized yet that she was WRONG!!!

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Submitted by onebright1 on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 8:54am

"She had no clue that her whiney, self loathing, lying, nasty self was the reason why they were so unhappy."

This ^ is our BM

She still refuses to see me as more than "rebound sex" < her words lol

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Submitted by whatcanido on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 2:42pm

Unhappy--That is great! And so wierd that a lot of BM actions overlap with each other. Our BM told me that I was "one of many girls in BF's life and you won't be the last." Funny thing is, we are getting married, but we're going to elope. Neither one of us like weddings anyway AND we don't want her causing drama leading up to a wedding--because WE ALL KNOW she will. SO, I am happy for you. Its great when you know a BM can't stand for the Ex to be "moving on" and that SHE wasn't the end all be all. Oh, yeah--we're not going to tell anyone when we marry--so when she takes him to court for an AMORAL lifestyle--(yes, its illegal in my state)--BF will show the marriage papers.