Never ending BM craziness vent
Just a vent here..but seriously...OK so after my bf not seeing his D about 3-4wknds..she is w/him this past wknd.
My kids were w/me-though supposed to be w/their dad-they had a bday sleepover of a friend Sat that's moving out of state soon-so I called my ex and ASKED if he would mind them staying w/me this wknd-what they had going on, etc..sure he says no problem-So all good.
Thats the thing-since im' custodial and know all the kids friends/parents if they have an event/bday I'll normally just swap the wknd because when they are w/him I don't want to tell him what to do or interfere w/his time.
Well-of course BM is nuts so she plans SD wknd to include a sleepover bday w/someone from school for Sat-that my bf has to take her to and lose his time....and then she calls on Sunday around 4 to say she wants to pick her up then. HELL no-we are grilling out, this is HIS time, the time is always between 6 and 7pm-so NO you aren't getting her early. The BD calls mom back and says-nope, not ready to go now, having fun about to eat...see you later. She STILL didn't want to go home when it was time. What is this womans deal??? She will try to pull the most ridiculous random things-like dropping her off w/his parents any random day/moments she wants...BUT since the last blowout where my bf finally stood up for himself and his parents she hasn't tried to do that anymore thank goodness. But then you're gonna call and want to cut his Sunday afternoon short? She's done this at least 10times-but we do NOT budge. TOO bad. Friggin crazy woman!
The good thing is Sat night bf and I went out for dinner/drinks w/friends had a great time-so I only saw FSD Sunday afternoon-and though she seemed a little nervous the first few moments she actually did pretty good-got along good w/the boys and neighbors also. The girl didn't leave my side and talking to me for at least 1 1/2hs straight-...and goes on to say her moms "friend" (girlfriend) can't stand kids 
So-bf got to see BM's new girlfriend...a whole 300lb, shaven head, ugly, unshaven, grossly dressed, manly and vile looking IT is all he could muster to say when he came back-and being in shock that his D is around IT-whom he said was just plain out SCARY.
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Oh...we don't answer the
Oh...we don't answer the phone-if you see some previous blogs...when bf got a new number/phone he didn't give it to her-thing is even if he said no to something she would go around, call his parents, they would say yes and he was always underminded.
SO if his parents wanted to do that crap and answer the phone then he was getting out of the middle (HOPING they'd get tired of it-stop interferring and let him handle his own bsns!!!) so far they are growing weary but havnen't fully given up.
We find out if she's called after she calls his parents house and they call/text him-and they get all worried about it-as if he should jump and listen to her...my ass! LOL
When he does call her or her D we use #67 to block his n.
NOW we are finally getting to the point where we're hoping his parents will stick their nose out of his bsns all together and back him up ...they have other stress/health issues going on to deal with.
If it weren't for them we'd probably always be blissfully ignorant of what's going down
YES-it's the DO Gooders, they
YES-it's the DO Gooders, they cannot STAND BM, Nobody in his family will speak to bm or her family-BUT they never say no to the SD calling them and passing the message that xyz is happening-or when BM calls to try to change schedules or some other craziness- They despise BM but feel so bad for the situations the girl is put in that they say yes to everything to "protect" the girl. But you can't really.
It's a hard reality to accept-but my bf has and they will have to also. They also fall to bm's threats and manipulations where the bf doesn't.
They don't understand divorce law, etc...so any little noise from bm sends them into a tailspin-where we know there's nothign she can do and is blowing hot air to get them to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants. Not kidding-we got at least 3-4 calls, text from his dad this wknd. WTH? I think they're finally getting fed up-hopefully they will start worrying about their own lives.