Ok am I crazy? I asked my husband to have a talk with my ss7 about what he calls me. He calls me stepmom, not just when telling people who I am but when he talks to me. When he needs something I'll here stepmom yelled across the house, is it wrong that I just want to be called by my name, or maybe even nannie which is what my niece and nephew call me. I'm not his mom and I know that and have no desire to be called that I wouldn't want to be the little brats mom, but stepmom just seems delibratly putting me in evil fairystory territory, my husband says its because he wants to call me mom and his bm had a fit over that so he settled for stepmom, and he doesn't mean it in a bad way. But I hate it, my husband is going to talk to him about it, but is it wrong for me not to like it?