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Uggh. Not again so soon!

reluctantgma's picture

When Bozo and I parted the other day, it was mutually agreed that collecting his massive piles of stuff from my yard was not urgent. That it was safe here and he had no good place to store it for the time being.

Phoned my nearby friend when I went on my run for critter feed yesterday since I pick up feed for her too. Told her about Bozo "saving" me from jail and we both laughed. She mentioned that he'd called her fiance wanting to borrow his trailer and whined about "poor" BH's behavior at school leading to Bozo's grueling encounter with social services. Given Bozo has access to my trailer that originally moved his crap over here, we felt the call to borrow their trailer was a (failed) pity play.

By the time I'd collected the feed and reached the book store, Bozo phoned. He wants to pick up the rest of his things today.

Thanks. I'm wiped out and struggling to find myself after the whirlwind events of the past week, you and BH have all of your critical essentials, but let's just dive right in there again. Today is not a good day. I need to do laundry in order to wear clothes to meet with my daughter on Sunday; and would liked to done some canning to take a batch of goodies to her and my grandson.

OTOH, the sooner Bozo clears his petty belongings outta here, the better. Borrow the damned trailer, get your things and be the hell gone by 5pm. I've already got a load of laundry in and will find somewhere to go today.

I thought my offer of free storage was generous. Figured we could work something out to get the crap moved when we were both calm and grounded. No, you enjoy creating chaos and keeping it going. Being rude and obtrusive makes you happy. Savor it this time, Bozo, cause it's the last f'ing time with me.

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alwaysanxious's picture

It is the last time. He can get his stuff and you are done. No dragging anything out which is really the best thing. Emotionally, its just hard.

reluctantgma's picture

Ya'd think someone who was phoning to borrow a trailer before 2pm yesterday would have picked it up by evening while my friends were there to hand it over. Apparently not. The trailer owner won't be around today until around noon and I haven't heard anything from Bozo. (grrrr)

Taking advantage of the time to continue collecting his household belongings that keep popping up so they can go out with the bureaus that are now on the porch. Glad to get this done (relatively) promptly, but disappointed he'll probably drag this out until dusk or later. It's a long, early morning drive tomorrow. Would be nice to have a full evening to relax and collect myself. Grit my teeth and bear it...

alwaysanxious's picture

he won't be in the house. Just on the property. I'd say relax and have a drink while you laugh at him hauling his things away.

reluctantgma's picture

Crap, this seems more like the "insert the space holder" game. He just phoned to say that his Pa's truck needs repair and he doesn't know how long it will take, blah blah blah... Told him whenever he is ready to do this, he should get organized and make sure everything - truck/trailer - is set to go the night before so he can arrive early and be done in a day. Annoying, but now I can hang around and catch up for me today.