I dont think I should go with dh!

Ok I will make this short and sweet, both my ss's live with thier mom and her new dh, they have been together for years, but just got married ....a few months after me and dh got married?????

But anyway the youngest ss has been drawing pictures of him killing his teacher and others, it was so bad the teacher and the principle called his mom and then she called dh . ss has also been stealing i pods from his aunts and other small things when he thinks nobody will miss it . He is only 8 going on 9 in november....

Bm has set up an appointment to take ss to counselor ....she is going her dh and my dh is going, dh asked me to go, but I think it is just because bm is bringing her dh. About a year ago when ss was going to a counselor bm and my dh were there I wanted to go in to see what was really goin on with ss, and dh told me it would be better if it were just him and bm in with ss.

i think If ss spent more time with me and dh then I would want to go bu he is only there Every other weekend from saturday afternoon to sunday afternoon. but Dh is his dad, and bm and her dh spen a WHOLE lot of time with him, so I think the people that should be going are going, what do you all think?

PLUS it would be hard for me to get off work.

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Don't go. And honestly the

Don't go. And honestly the step dad shouldn't be going either. BM wanted this with us and I refused...Not my kid, I did not cause this mess and I was not going to let them bash my parenting anymore.

That how I feel too, a few

That how I feel too, a few years back whenI tried to dicipline ss I was told that I was not his mom and i should just "stay in my lane". So now that he is turnin into some type of little monster you want me to sit in on this meeting, I don't think so. I will let you and his mom handle it.

But I do think that the bm's dh should go because she leaves the kids with him alot, according to my dh..every time he calls to talk to the boys he is told that they are at home with bm's dh. While she is out doing stuff.