And the saga continues.....
DH and I went to court today over what we thought was an issue related to SD19 college bill. Low and behold (insert smack in face) it was actually a veiled case regarding my "abuse" of SD16. Lawyer of Exwife told her to bring the 19 and 16 SD to court today over the supposed abuse. Stated in my previous blog SD16 went through my diary, made copies gave to mother, and DH, posted online and such. Well, well, well those copies showed up in court today as the mental abuse that I am causing the SD16.
Now it seems that the SD16 get to TELL her father what she is going to do and where she is going to live, and its not with her mother. The grandmother, grandfather, aunts and uncles won't take this SD16 into their homes but the real kicker is neither will her MOTHER!!!!
The lawyer's raked me over the coals for the page from my diary regarding darling SD16 but when they asked her to say exactly what I have actually done to her she didn't have any concrete examples. She said, "She looks at me mean...." and such were her answers.
Now onto the problem DH is upset and thinks I should move out in order to "keep" his daughter. Since when did a 16 year get adult rights? Now what?
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Let me get this
Let me get this straight...your DH thinks YOU should move out, because his daughter invaded your privacy and copied pages from your diary? My god...I wouldn't want to be anywhere near that little witch. I wouldn't move out if I were you.
Did you have an attorney? You
Did you have an attorney? You can appeal this ruling, if there was one. There is such a thing as discovery, they cannot blindside yuo like that legally.
by all means... I would move
by all means... I would move out and NEVER GO BACK. Forget that horrid child, and forget that husband who will not stick up for his wife, and tell this CHILD that she does not run the show.
GOSH the stories on this site today are terrible! I feel so horrible for each and every one of you! Bleh!
^^^^tHIS is exactly what I
^^^^tHIS is exactly what I was planning to type. I'd never get over the lack of loyalty and betrayal from either of them. Sounds like they deserve one another. You deserve someone who has your back. Good riddance.
YES YES YES ^^^^^^^^^^THIS
YES YES YES ^^^^^^^^^^THIS TOTALLY^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Or maybe tell him to move back in with BM. You are so obviously NOT his top priority.
She's freaking 16 FFS. How long will he let her live with you after she turns 18. Because these Disney Daddy types can never let go and push the baby out of the nest. But eventually she WILL leave. And then where will daddy be? Completely alone.
What an asshat, fucktard, fidiot, douche canoe!!
EXACTLY!! Let guilty daddy
EXACTLY!! Let guilty daddy move in with mini-wife/BM-do over!!!
:sick: :sick: :sick:
Mental abuse!!! In today's "child adoration" society, just looking at a kid without a permanent grin on your face is 'abuse.'
Disgusting!!
I am sorry if DH said this to
I am sorry if DH said this to me, I would be gone. He can kiss my ass. I have been here and it came down to me or her in several discussions. My attitude was she can not live here. Your husband is a fool...Why would her mother do this if she didn't want custody of her???
If this were me, I would stay
If this were me, I would stay firmly planted in my (yes, my!) home. My DH can either leave, or stay in the home and put up with me giving SD16 mean looks. Either way, I am NOT leaving my home.
I agree with twopines.. Stay
I agree with twopines.. Stay in the home and let dh DECIDE what HE needs to do. DO NOT let him put the ball in your court FORCE him to make that choice!
** sidenote DH attorney threw
** sidenote DH attorney threw me under the bus with the diary papers saying that I should never have written them in the first place. EXCUSE ME!!! When does privacy become unprivate?
THOUGHT POLICE
THOUGHT POLICE ALERT!!!!
WHOOOOOP! WHOOOOOP! WHOOOOOP!
I'm in a rotten, shitty,
I'm in a rotten, shitty, mood right now, so I apologize in advance for what I'm about to say: I hate your skid for you! What a sick, invasive, little creep to accuse you of abuse! AND your DH... WTF crawled up his ass to choose his pathological spawn over his wife?!?! Tell him he can have my lying, psycho SD, too.
Taking you to court under the pretense of one thing, but attacking your honour on an unrelated event... Isn't that entrapment?
Amazing what a double
Amazing what a double standard there is when it comes to these young adults. She goes into the private areas of your home , snoops around and takes copies of what she finds to court. Yet how many young people have totally trashed their step parents publicly on Facebook???
Maybe had she made copies of some very very romanticly posed pictures of you and hubby the judge would have seen through this for what it is. Complete disrespect for boundries and invasion of privacy by a kid that should have had her behind warmed up a long time ago. She did not get this gutsy overnight. She has been a work in progress for quite some time.
***********came home and SD16
***********came home and SD16 had moved all "her" stuff out to an extended family member's home. Hmmm. She took "her" car and moved. I would have helped her pack but she ignored me and D5 at that time. So let me ask. Is DH just indulging (enabling) this attitude or do I just shut up and let it go?
I have shut off her cell phone that I paid and stopped the insurance that I was paying. DH is mad about me doing so even though they were in my name only. Should I push for the car to be left at our house since it was purchased with marital money?
What I don't understand is letting a 16 year old make a decision about living somewhere other than her father or mother? Don't get me wrong the stress level will go alot lower now but DH is hurt.
Who actually has custody of
Who actually has custody of this child??? Who's name is on the title of the car? If this child is under 18 anything this child does that could create a lawsuite for damages is the responsibility of both bio parents. If she moves to a different school district she can not go to school there if her parent does not sign her paperwork for the school. What makes her think she can just move where ever she chooses as if she were an adult with adult rights???
DH has custody and is nothing
DH has custody and is nothing but enabling his spoiled child. I see this as his doing and the ex-wife wants no responsibility but to play with her new boy toy.
Yes-if your name is on the
Yes-if your name is on the car I would demand it back. If dh disagrees tell him you will call the police and report it stolen. What an idiot! Tell him also that he is free to leave at anytime and set up house with his spawn but that YOU are not going anywhere. I am also angry for you-she had no right to go thru your things, share them with everyone, and then take this info to court. I am not sure what the purpose of taking it to court was though? Was it to get dh's visits stopped? Just to put on record that sm is mean? What was it that they were trying to accomplish?
Damn girl, why exactly do you
Damn girl, why exactly do you want this "man" anyway? I would pack up my shit and leave so fast he'd being eating my dust.Of course not before looking my best and sexiest, w/ the parting words "see ya DH, I hope miniwife makes you VERRRY happy!" :sick:
If your name is on that car,
If your name is on that car, you need to get it back immediately. You are open to countless liabilities here. Especially if you cut of the car's insurance. If she hits someone you get sued, not her since she is under 18. Your husband is a fool....Seriously report the car stolen and get it back....Your homeowner's umbrella policy will not be enough to stop a bankruptcy if she kills someone...My sis is a insurance lawyer for one of the largest carriers and she tells us these stories for fun at family gatherings...Not what you want to hear if you have teenagers. After one of our discussions we actually increased our liability insurance out of pure fear of my son getting his license.