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OT-would you see a clairvoyant ??

truebloodfreak's picture

I'm contemplating going to see a clairvoyant a friend recommended. I'm feeling very lost,confused and alone. Too many issues with SO to count,financial difficulties, the whole step mom situation. I've also looked at couples counseling but its hard to make appointments with both of working different schedules and dropping the baby with my parents etc. Would you see a clairvoyant for guidance or intuition, different perspective? ??Or have any of you been to a clairvoyant or psychic? Whatvwas it like?

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ThatGirl's picture

Nope, not something that would hold any weight with me. What's interesting, tho, is that BM supposedly spoke to one a while back. Now she believes that someone's put a curse on her. I think this "curse" is just her way of avoiding responsibility for her actions. Of course, all things that have gone wrong in her life have to be someone else's doing!

Jshep's picture

I've been to them a lot! Always for entertainment purposes. The ones I've gone to have always tape recorded the session, and then they tell you to listen to it in 3 months, 6 months and then a year later. It's really creepy some of the things she said. She even quoted my mother word for word. She mentioned my sister's deployment (w/o any info she was in the military), said that my ex, who I thought was my soul mate (I got really good at lying to myself lol), should end things before we hate each other...needless to say, we hate each other. lol She called out his substance abuse problem (again, no info). All she ever asked for were first names and because I was so skeptical, I didn't really give her much to go on. It was so much fun! I recommend it to everyone at least once. My ex's grandfather even passed during the middle of his mom's reading, and the psychic stopped talking and told her "someone close to you just crossed." We heard the tape...it was at the exact time we got the phone call about his grandpa. And we were outside at the time, so there would have been NO WAY the woman could have heard or seen our reaction. It was crazy!!

MJL2010's picture

I have been to some, including one in Salem, MA. He told me what I thought were some really cool things but then I found out that he said the same stuff to my friend. I have really not been that impressed but wow! I wish I could go to the one Jshep has been to! There are obviously some charlatans out there since it is such a hard thing to prove. Are you near Jshep and could get that psychic's name??

oneoffour's picture

I saw one immediately after my ex walked out. My head was in a really mixed up place and I was an absolute mess. This was about 2 months after he left in Jan 2000. So we are talking March/April 2000. I just womted someone who didn't know me to say something nice and I wasn't a total nutjob and still a good person or tell me my ex was about to fall under a truck or come back to me apologising forever...

Not so. She said in 2-3 years I would be emptying out my life and walking into the sun with 2 suitcses. My ex would never be happy and he would always chase the dream. The thing is he doesn't know what a good person you are and he has it all with you. He may never even realise it but he would never come back beause he was out of my life.

In 2001 I met my now-DH online through a Divorce Support site. I was in New Zealand, he was in the USA. In 2003 he came to NZ and asked me to marry him. In 2004 I walked away from my 43 years (my entire life) in New Zealand and came here to marry him and live here in the USA. Oh and I had 2 suitcases and 5 small boxes that contained my entire life.

My ex married a woman he barely knew 2 months after DH and I did. He has burnt through all his late mother's estate and has relocated to another part of his home country and always is after the next best thing.

In your case I would maybe see a lifecoach or a therapist so you can let go your past impressions and thoughts and put some order in your life. That sounds more the kind of direction you need.

truebloodfreak's picture

Thanx for the advice/opinions. This clairvoyant my.friend knows charges $150/HR. I could do a lot more things with $150 than listen to a stranger. I guess im looking for someone to tell me what i already know. I think I'm better off looking into counseling individual and.couples.