ok so i talked to dh, i told him i'm NOT ok with supporting 7 people on my income alone.

so we've put it off for some time but talked to sd24 yesterday, we told her that we just can't afford 7 ppl on my income alone, and that we think she'd be better off back in her home state where she was when we first got in contact with her. she said she's been thinking the same thing, no hard feelings and is in the process of talking to some friends to see about moving home. i told her that we could get her there she said friends might be able to come get her, either way, she'll be out soon and dh might be working full time soon!

i'm soooooo glad dh finally made the inniciative to talk to sd24 to tell her "we're still here for you, we just need to put the minor kids first and can't with her and 2 kids here"