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purpledaisies's picture

I work with girl that say things like this all the time. "I have to tell you b/c it is driving me crazy, your shirt is dingy and you need to oxy clean it!" or "I think you need to straighten your hair I just can't stand it" or "Your clothes don't match and you need to change" or I'll get a water and she will try to give my a glass of ice. I'll say "I don;t ice" she "YES you do here" "no I don't" Yes you do!" "no" and walk way but she doesn;t stop had will put the ice down next to me and say "here" .

Then my fave is this one, I was talking to a customer and she came up and said this "He is here to see ME not you"! Right in front of the customer then she actually said "well you ask him if you want" Right in front of him! :jawdrop: I only asked if he was ready for a drink! (we work in a bar.) Who cares if he was there to just see her or what ever but to say that IN FRONT of a customer??? WOW she did get in trouble for that one though.

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ThatGirl's picture

She's a royal bitch and I would do my best to ignore her. She knows she's bugging the crap out of you, that's why she continues to do it.

dragonfly5's picture

Why do women hurt women! I hate it...We demean each other, draw negative attention to each other. Petty..nasty. Why is this?

It baffles me.

Anonymous_stepmom's picture

That would piss me off royally and I'd tell her to shove it where the sun don't shine.

Totalybogus's picture

I would tell her not to talk to you because she truly is insignificant in your life. She's jealous of you and insecure, otherwise she wouldn't try to put you down to make herself feel better.

ThatGirl's picture

Is this the same bitch that stole your phone charger? Or the one that said you can't wear a dragonfly because that's HER thing? Or do you just happen to work with more than one bitch? LOL

purpledaisies's picture

I think I'm going to tell her to mind her own business! Honestly why should she care if she thinks someone else short is dingy?? Why would she care if she thinks someone needs to straighten their hair?? B/c she thinks if she puts them down she is making herself look better when she is really just making herself look jealous!

Thanks ladies.

ThatGirl's picture

She's total trailer trash, just ignore her. Turn your nose up and walk away from her, because you're better than her. It will make her crazy }:)

purpledaisies's picture

That girl you are right I mean we ARE talking about someone that is married to a mexican that has been deported and is NOT allowed back to the states! Yep he was arrested for some bad things that I really don't know much about and don't care. However she is paying HIS CS and he doesn't work so she is supporting him in mexico while she is here but she says it is 'different' then others who are doing the same i.e. supporting their man and paying his cs! lol I just think it is funny.

I bet she hates her life and is very resentful but is in denial. Wink

daisy0202's picture

woman working together is unreal....Like I tell woman i work with...Do your job and go home to your families....Do not worry about who is sleeping with who, who's boobs are hanging out of there shirt, and this one i love, who has a number of children with all different daddy's.....LMAO...

purpledaisies's picture

Daisy you are so right! I do MY job and I go HOME! Who cares what the other girls are doing! since i work in a bar there are rumors about who goes home with who and even it was rumored i went home with someone! lol I ignore all of that and I don;t worry about the other girls and what they are doing or wearing or how they fix their hair b/c at the end of the it does NOT affect me in any way or how much money i make!

So why should they worry about that crap either it doesn;t affect their money or their job or maybe it does since they are so busy worrying about the others they can't do their job. ha ha

daisy0202's picture

Well want to get a good laugh...I have worked at this present job for 10 years, been divorced for 6...So I was of course down and well bitchy....i am a PA so of course my staff noticed but I never talk about my life EVER!!!!! Well I heard from another Dr. the rumor was i was either pregnant, having an affair and the other man was married like I was, or going through a divorce well it got so bad that during a meeting I explained to everyone that my personal life was really none of anyones buisness but if everyone was sooo interested in my life i was going through a divorce and would appreciate the BS to stop!!!! Then when I meet my husband and brought him to the Christmas party...The rumors started again...Who was he, how serious was it, OMG she is dating!!!! I just ignored them. They know nothing of my life except i got married, because i went on a 3 week honeymoon so they knew I got remarried but other than that they have no clue and it kills them...They ask ?'s like how are you? how is your husband and kids? How is the whole 2 families going and my response is always WONDERFUL thank you!!!!! They hate that LMFAO!!!!!

GoldenGoose's picture

Daisy: totally OT.. I am a PA as well. I have one person in my office with whom I trade confidences and that is it. With everyone else, I respond the very same way.