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My daughter called BM "Auntie" :-O

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Submitted by stepmom31 on Mon, 03/19/2012 - 10:47am

My daughter went to the door when BM came to pick up SS this weekend. And she stood there waving to her "Auntie". :jawdrop:

Broke my heart really. She's about 2. I picture there will be so many more moments when she links herself to SS and SD's family. And there's nothing I can do about it. Soon enough she'll be going over there and calling BM's new baby her cousin.

If I wanted to do something about it then I should not have married my DH.

All my family lives in another country so she doesn't see them as often as she sees this "Auntie" which is every weekend. And I HATE that it has to be this way.

Times like this I wish we lived very far away from BM.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 03/19/2012 - 11:22am

Oh yes there is if she is under 18 I would make it very clear that she is NOT allowed over there. My kids don;t go to bm s and never would even think about it. Your dh is stupid to even think that it is a possibility! I'd make it clear to him too! He can give you something and I SOOO choose to make sure my kids would Never be around bm! there is NO connection between bm and my kids even if her kids are their siblings! They can see each other at MY house end of story!

Oh and as far as her calling bm auntie I would start teaching her NOW that she is NOT her auntie! she is 2 you can do teach her that bm is NOT someone she can hang with!

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Submitted by DeeDeeTX on Mon, 03/19/2012 - 11:57am

I might be ok with it if BM was normal. Say she was a great person, and DH and her just didn't work well together, so they decided to get a divorce, but everything was very amicable.

I wouldn't want BK to hang out in that situation, but it wouldn't necessarily prompt a hell no, either. But if BM was whacko, no fing way.