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BM wants to "borrow" MY 2 year old son for a couple days! 

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Submitted by Unappreciatedwi... on Sun, 04/01/2012 - 6:26pm

My almost 7 year old ss wants to take my 2 year old to show & tell & she wants MY son to stay with them for a couple days. I don't know what to say to that. I find it very funny that she would even think about asking me that.
1. There is NO WAY in fcking hell I would let her have my son for 1 second. 
2. "IF" I "was" that fcking stupid my husband wouldn't let her have him for 1 second & will yell at her just for asking as soon as I tell him
3. MY son is not a fcking "object" for show & tell
4. I have been with my son 24/7 since he was conceived. I won't even let people I like & trust watch him.
5. She lives in the ghetto surrounded by gang shootings & drug dealers. I don't even want my skids there. 
6. She don't even watch her kids. 
7. I don't want my baby boy coming home saying fck you bitch after picking it up from her 2 year old nephew. 
8. Her apt is dirty with rotten food all over, people smoke, drink & do drugs. 
9. Almost 7 year old ss is horrible to my son & would probably kill him if left alone with him.
10. Bitch is fcken crazy!

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sonja's picture

Submitted by sonja on Sun, 04/01/2012 - 9:36pm

FDH asked me in the past about BS1 staying the night with SD at BMs (in the future of course). HECK F***ing NO! They like to think because their child stays with us that it is equivalent to our child staying with them. SORRY! Its not!

If SD ran out to the road I would run after her. If my BS ran to the road, I bet BM would let him go.

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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Mon, 04/02/2012 - 6:42am

lol!!! Show and tell with the baby brother is a really cute idea from SS , but under no circumstances I would leave your little boy with her, from what you say it is not safe or good for any children.Would there be any chance to only do the show and tell?I dont think it will make DS an object or something like that- I know about many children who want to show off their baby sisters or brothers:))
But BM.....no way.
In individual cases if the siblings/halfsiblings/Skids/bkids, whatever kiddos, get along well and BM is not such a weirdo like so many experience here, I dont find the idea of occasional playdates too strange.In some families , where everybody is amicable I heard those things happening and work out ok.I think it would feel strange to me a bit.